From an established hobbyist with good refs because he was too graphic in his reviews?

I am not challenging you just wondering

I just ask that they not submit a review of our date.  I don't turn down the oppertunity for a good fucking, I just request that it stays private. Sometimes its fun keeping secrets!

but no thanks?

...I'll ask them to not to review the session. In many cases, clients have let me see their detailed account prior to submitted which is considerate but obviously not required/demanded.

....on the flip side some guys have mentioned in person they were surprised how graphic some of mine were lol (didn't stop them from contacting me tho haha). *shrugs* I'm not too uptight about if a guy writes graphic reviews (ymmv about this tho) but can certainly understand why some ladies (and guys) are turned off by it.  

turns down a reviewer because they are not a high scorer, than because they are graphic....    I remember when TER would not accept reviews that were not graphic - they seem to have gone soft on that....

My older reviews when I was new to the hobby were more graphic than now.  Now I don't go into the details as much.  I think it's because I'm divorced and seeing a couple of my favorite providers is special to me.  I regard them as friends as well as escorts where before they were (ashamed to say it) more like lovely sex toys to use.

I was turned down by a provider recently because she said I went into too much detail with my reviews.  She mentioned something to the extent of doing certain things for one guy and he lets the world know, and every client will expect it. I then agreed to not review her and she relented.   The appointment is scheduled for mid June.

the provider thought, based on my reviews, that I would not like her because of her body type.  It was kind of odd - after all, I had seen her photos and decided I wanted to see her.  And she could have said "are you sure?" or just "please don't write a review" but she just said she didn't want to do it -- that she would not feel sexy.  I respect her choice -- I don't want an appointment with someone who doesn't want an appointment with me.  But it surprised me

And if it ain't on the menu...and of course the latter being no for 99 percent of providers listing BBFS You gotta shut the fuck up! and don't even say you insisted on a rubber be4 activity as I seen reviewers mention so I know what she offered, lol.    

Shouldn't you keep all this info to yourself?... at least until after your appointment.

It would not be prudent to bring this question up after the fact, if I agreed to not write a review but instead indirectly take our session to the forums. She is not in the DC area BTW.

Yes , absolutely.

Wonder if a recent review wasn't rejected because of this conversation?  Reason?  Not graphic enough.

it made me nervous...