If you're 50 and you've able to keep up with some of these providers I think you still got it, so I salute you. I believe we've built up a comfort level around women that we're not pressed on taking anybody home when we go out, why should we? we have many incredible options here on TER. A woman could be flirting up a storm and sometimes all I could think about is "who I should call later". However, I spoiled myself a little too early because I'm still young.
...I was hanging out last Thursday in and about DC. Seeing all the Civi ladies showing off their best attributes still not motivate me to go outta my way to strike up a conversation or make any serious attempts for a hook-up.
So is it me and I'm just not in the mood for all the BS and game playing to simply want to get a peice of pussy?
OR, am I really 50 and lost my "hook-up skills" to the point where I dont even want to dust them off if I have a viable candidate?
OR, is it that I subconciously know that all I need to do is access my hobbyist resources and arrange to have some good sex without all the drama and ultimate headaches and nightmares of "bunny biolers" (infamous scene from fatal attraction)
Hobbying does discourage me from chasing civie pussy because of the dramas associated with the civie girls. What is the ultimate goal of some individuals as it relates to girls in general? Some may say that the ultimate goal is achieving sex, while others may say that the ultimate goal is to find a companion that shares their interest and goals. I'm not going to talk about companionship, and will talk about sex.
The tricky part about having a civie relationship (can be a one night stands, a no strings attached, or a good friend to hang out and have sex with) is the drama. I go out to eat often because of my schedule. That is, I am usually at the bar for lunch and dinner. I like to cook, but don't usually have the time to do so. When seeing an escort, it is guaranteed sex (most of the times) and there is less drama.
With a civie girl, sometimes you have to spend a few days and spend a few hundred dollars and take her out for her to have sex with you. Not many people have that luxury as it relates to schedules. It is a long process to achieve sex, and that process is the length of time it will take (usually a few days or several weeks). After sex, a girl may want to get to know you more, and that is where the drama begins. With one night stands, girls will usually want to call you back and the cycle of getting to know you more continues. With a no strings attached, there are always strings attached because I always find myself spending money on her (same can be said about a friend to hang out with and have sex).
It is I that turn down a girl that approaches me for a relationship because I do not want to hurt her feelings. I've turned down countless gorgeous looking civie girls because of this (not boasting, this is just the realization of my life). I am a promiscuous person I and do not want to trick her into a relationship to achieve only sex. When I approach a girl in the bar, I make sure she understands my position, and if she accepts my conditions, then I will have sex with her. If the civie girls call me back, then I will see where the relationship goes from there. If the relationship is in my favor, that is, we both just want to have sex and hang out, then I will continue the relationship.
I will proactively approach civie girls at the bar, but the girls must understand my conditions for engaging in the conversation. A lot have to be considered when talking to a civie girl. The hobby does change my selection in the girls I approach. I only approach gorgeous looking girls. The hobby fits into my personal life because I do not have to hurt her feelings trying to juggle several other relationships with other girls.
If you're 50 and you've able to keep up with some of these providers I think you still got it, so I salute you. I believe we've built up a comfort level around women that we're not pressed on taking anybody home when we go out, why should we? we have many incredible options here on TER. A woman could be flirting up a storm and sometimes all I could think about is "who I should call later". However, I spoiled myself a little too early because I'm still young.
Before I knew anything about the "hobby" and seeing a "prostitute" was out of the question for me I had plenty of opportunities that I took advantage of and MANY I simply let pass by.
I started the hobby thing when I hit my 40s and married ( where sex goes to die). That's when I started lamenting the pussy I left on the side of the road. I'm kinda picky and avoided any potential bunnyboilers and average looking ladies like the plague. Avoiding the bunnybioilers fwas or obvious reasons.
I tended to avoid the average to below average girls looking girls cause they tended to get attached and clingy especially if you put-it-down like a brotha should. These types were consistently available but I would hold out for the next best thing. Sometimes the next best thing showed, sometimes it didn't.
You must exercise your skills if you are to remain sharp. You are too young to hang it up yet. Speaking as an older guy, the problem will become finding a civie who is interested IN you and is still interesting TO you. Milfs and Cougars are great, but even the best of them can be a little tired and worn out. Gravity has a way of moving the firmest flesh toward the ground.
I have never had a problem with with bedding civies, but I find fewer and fewer who can really turn me on. Thus, the hobby.
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