You do not have to believe me, but she is below the average in terms atittude. But as always, YMMV.
I called Amy25, a new visitor to town, and said I saw that she was visiting DC. She impatiently said she wasn't in DC, to look at her number. I looked at the ad again, and said it showed her visiting DC. She even more impatiently responded that she wasn't in DC, she was in Chantilly.
When I said "OK, but that's in the DC area," I heard an exasperated sigh, then "what time did you want to come?" When I asked about her rates she got even more annoyed, and said "they're in my ad," and I said "yes, but I wanted to ask if you have a short-stay visit."
Angry breath, then a hang-up. If this broad can't even be courteous for a 30-second conversation, it's best to send her back home with an empty purse.
Had the same thing happen to me two weeks ago- I politely told her I'd reschedule and never did.
A great attitude goes a long ways no matter what your doing!
First thing is we have no idea what your tone of voice was and if you even politely introduced yourself before diving right in with your questions. I am a provider and I receive MANY phone calls each day. FYI: You NEVER discuss rates over the phone! NEVER! Personally I would have directed you to my website and asked you to call me back. Our websites are full of information to help you decide if we are the lady for you. She is not a broad. You were out of line asking her the things you did. Not cool. AND now that you are unsatisfied with her response to your inappropriate questions, you are trying to ruin her stay here. You're are real treat! Looks like she made the right choice to avoid seeing you.
I think the mod should remove this thread. Or at the VERY LEAST remove the link to her ad.
"think the mod should remove this thread. Or at the VERY LEAST remove the link to her ad."
The OP's attitude and post most likely has helped her business. The education factor for those not yet worthy of gentleman status, is worth leaving it up.Plus, many of us will favor, and never scorn a damsel in distress.
Guaranteed she will receive more calls, not less because of the OP, especially from those of us who only window shop on TER.
Her rates are CLEARLY posted on her page. I didn't have any trouble finding them! There was no reason for this guy to ask.
I actually started thinking this might turn out to be a good thing for her before I saw your post. I hope it does.
I hung up on someone just the other day.
Him: I was calling about your ad.
Me: Thanks for calling. What can I do for you?
Him: How much do you charge?
Me: All the information you need is on my website. I do not discuss rates over the phone. BTW what is your name?
Him: My name is *****. I want to know if I can taste you and lick your entire body?
Me: You know...this is precisely why I don't always answer my phone. Bye.
Rates and/or services will not be discussed with someone I don't know. Read my reviews and check out my website.
I actually started thinking this might turn out to be a good thing for her before I saw your post. I hope it does.
I hung up on someone just the other day.
Him: I was calling about your ad.
Me: Thanks for calling. What can I do for you?
Him: How much do you charge?
Me: All the information you need is on my website. I do not discuss rates over the phone. BTW what is your name?
Him: My name is *****. I want to know if I can taste you and lick your entire body?
Me: You know...this is precisely why I don't always answer my phone. Bye.
Rates and/or services will not be discussed with someone I don't know. Read my reviews and check out my website.
It takes some time for newbies to get the hang of things, so put your black stilettos off and don't give anyone a concussion, SP.
However, everyone operates differently. I know several providers who quote rates over the phone.
He'll learn.
Some do, some don't ....just approach every lady as if she dosn't.
I totally agree with you. The vulgar conversation usually follows and I also terminate the phone call.
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You do not have to believe me, but she is below the average in terms atittude. But as always, YMMV.
"If this broad can't even be courteous for a 30-second conversation, it's best to send her back home with an empty purse."
Maybe she is clairvoyant, or merely capable of picking out tones she might not be compatible with?
Everyones different however I would "never" ask a donation over the phone.
I am curiously inquisitive of your vison of a short stay. Were you looking for a rendezvous of less time than what she offers on her ad?
"150 half
200 hour
250half/300 hour domination/strap-on/role plays
250half/300hour for me and my sexy friend"
http://www.escorts.com/member/2487208/AMY25
ROFL! I hadn't looked at her ad. Wow, she advertises half hour rates, but apparently that was still too long for Bunker?
Too effing funny. Yeah, I can't begin to imagine why she hung up on the cheap f*ck. Wracking my brains here LOL
Call me up and ask about rates and I just hang up. Then I block the number so I don't waste time answering that phone number again.
Never ask about rates. Ever. Period. End of story.
If you aren't LE, then you are a clueless hobbyist just waiting to be busted. I don't want you knowing where I am when you eventually do get busted.
Try learning better phone ettiquette, and maybe you won't get hung up on.
......Which happens alot (no posting of rates) with the scam skanks from the west coast then I say F-You Too.
If you dont post rates and get a call asking what your rates are then...........STFU
You are not addressing the subject at hand. Her rates are posted on her page. He was out of line. Furthermore, many ladies do not post their rates on their TER ads. But, they are always one click away on their websites and/or are even posted here on their TER profile. Put in an extra 10 seconds of your time to click on her link if you are interested in seeing her.
Addressing your other post: Even if you think she looks like she might be abrupt, that doesn't make it so. Don't judge a book by it's cover.
Yeah, well you are proving my point in reverse. If you can't find info about her rates, PASS. She leaves you no choice but to break the cardinal rule and ask about them. The question is - WHY? There are two possible answers, and neither of them good.
If you keep reading the ad whose link was posted above (I'm not sure about TER policy regarding competitor sites, so I'm being indirect), you'll also find a link to her personal site.
On that site, she has a big list of rates (not all of which are consistent with the rates referenced here), and she also has a block of text at the bottom which says that "some fees are negotiable". I'd be hesitant to do much negotiating over the phone. I might also say something like "I saw two different listings for your rates, and wondered which was correct".
I'd be unlikely to do any negotiating, but especially once I arrive, there's not going to be any, no way, no how. I have been known to say, "You know, I would like to stay over a while -- will your schedule permit that?", but that's as close as I get.
ladies may offer to negotiate their rates. But not within the first 30 seconds of a phone call with a socially inept moron who has no manners.
You certainly would have handled the phone call much better than this fool did. I hope he learns something from your post.
"I don't mean any harm but she looks like she would have an attitude"
I was having a drink at a local bar and a dude started up a conversation talking about his college days, and conquests of women. After a while he led the conversation to a discussion about gay guys and gay rights. I told him I never had any problems with gay guys bothering me,and I don't comprehend why some people care what they do in their own bedrooms.
He then told me he was gay.I asked him why he went through all the college girl stories. He said that was before he knew he was gay,and his first impression by looking at me, thought I would be a jerk with a bad attitude towards homosexuals.
Don't judge a book by its cover.
Maybe I was just having a bad hair day.
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I've had several clients say to me recently that I can be quite a bitch on the telephone the first go-round.
Well, if you email you won't receive any attitude at all usually and the provider will usually feel more comfortable discussing her location and/or clarifying her rates.
Understand how many phone calls providers receive. I know I personally sound annoyed on the phone when I'm really just tentative or scared. You are a stranger until proven otherwise and this is the position most providers take.
Further, her rates were listed in the advertisement. You called her despite her listed rates and asked for an alternative rate. I probably would have hung up too.
Don't be an asshole and you won't get drama on the phone.
Jesus Christ. You're advocating sending a girl home with no appointments because she couldn't be bothered to give you a streetwalker rate?
She should have told you to go fuck yourself before she hung up too. Your kind of drama doesn't deserve telephone courtesy.
Anyone trying to bargain for a less than half hour stay is a cretin, period. Stay home and do yourself; no woman will want to.
We spend hours, days, weeks, months, years on websites with all the info needed to book an appointment!
We endure endless bullshit phone calls from jackoffs doing just that who never haven any intention of booking an appointment. Don't add yourself to that list. Be real, be respectfull, learn how to read, and everything is good.
Caller: Hi, i saw your ad on computer
(at this point i already know i am dealing with genius. Really, on a computer? And here I am thinking I am running ads at places like Times Sq billboard)
Me: I assume you referring to Eros .. what can I do for you?
Him: Where are you?
Me: Currently at my home, but I do have incall location located in Manhattan.
Him: I want to come over.
Me: I would love to schedule appointment with u. What time did u have in mind?
Him: Now, and what is donation?
now .. this is where for a while I was politely answering that rates are listed in my ad and on my website.
these days? Here is the answer I give
"Donation is bunch of digits called rate and is listed on same fucking webpage where u managed to find another bunch of digits called phone number and where it fucking says that i need X hours minimum prior notice! "
Hang up.
Sorry, all it takes TWO clicks to find everything one needs to know - ONE click to website and ONE click to Rates page. Anyone who does not respect MY time and effort put into creating, updating and maintaining website with all pertinent information is not serious prospect.
...it seems you aren't really looking for the top shelf in customer service anyway. If you are going to see folks that regularly get 5's or 6's - that's cool, there's someone for everyone and I am not looking down my nose at anyone. But I would have to think that it's not just sexual performance that earns those scores...