I was able to set a date with a very hot utr provider. ..blonde, gorgeous with amazing skills. No ter profile. She is in the financial world and even admitted to having a boyfriend. Several potential dates had to be rescheduled due to her workload. Patience. was able to see her only because I have a hobby friend who raves about her and set me up. I imagine she is the type of lady you described. She is clearly in this because it fullfills some deep sexual need in her. What a find. She really enjoys herself which made the appt fantastic for me. I asked her if anyone she recognized has requested an appt. She said a lawyer who was friends with a family member tried to schedule...she didn't see him but didn't tell him why.
I imagine she is the type that most red blooded males would fantasize about.There’s this young woman – late 20s – at my office that is outstanding – in both the looks and brains departments. You know the kind – the tall, willowy blond you’d give your right nut to bang (and so would every other guy in the place). She dresses to kill, in very expensive clothes that are way over her pay grade. She’s always “going home” out of state on weekends. So, I’m thinking she has rich parents OR (as my warped mind begins to spin stories) maybe she’s a provider. There are a number of them out there that work on an UTR schedule, nights and weekends only; business women by day, high-end vixen escorts by night, seeing only one or two guys a week. Actually, I think these are often the best dates because they want the sex almost as much as they want the cash.
So, I began to wonder. What if she was, and, unbeknownst to me or her, we scheduled a date (with faces hidden in pix, it would be easy to do, especially if you’re using datecheck or p411 for verification purposes). Then, she shows up at my place (looking even hotter than at work, of course) and we recognize each other . . . catch my drift?
I guess my options would be –
1) Welcome her in and enjoy ourselves, but never mention it again (IMPOSSIBLE, right?)
2) Welcome her in, maybe have a drink, but agree that this can’t happen (not bloody likely)
3) Blush and say we made a mistake and send her on her way (not empty handed, of course)
Has this ever happened to anyone? What did YOU do? Inquiring minds want to know.
Hey why not go for # 1 !!! We only live once..
If so, the best response is a combo of 2 and 3 - acknowledge that this is awkward, say that you hope she can appreciate discretion and that you can as well, and agree never to speak of it again.
And....you may consider telling your supervisor that you had a little *indiscretion* with her. You probably shouldn't mention the pay aspect of the deal, but in case she gets pissed off at you and decides to make your life hell by alleging sexual harassment, you might want to have some sort of documentation that there was a romantic encounter, but that you politely declined the nice young lady's advances and went about your business.
But yeah, that takes all the fun out of the equation :-/
Jenn
Go for it - lay down your Donation, get naked and take her hard and deep.
Say in passing, both of you need to keep this confidential and you look forward
to seeing her again and again.
I see cause for concern for any work implications, she doesn't report to you
and your didn't create a "hostile work environment." She would be the last
one to file a harassment claim, she would have to explain her "dark side" and
undeclared income.
I've seen girls in the game, who are:
3rd Year Veterinary Student.
Graduate Student at Cal-Berkley
2nd year law school
Struggling Small Business Operator
House wife
And so on, they all do it primarily for the cash flow - in my view, these young girls
coming out of college have huge student loans, expensive tastes and little earning
capacity in the real world - so they escort. I like the economics of it all.
Ask her if she is! That'll get your ass shown to the door immediately.
I was able to set a date with a very hot utr provider. ..blonde, gorgeous with amazing skills. No ter profile. She is in the financial world and even admitted to having a boyfriend. Several potential dates had to be rescheduled due to her workload. Patience. was able to see her only because I have a hobby friend who raves about her and set me up. I imagine she is the type of lady you described. She is clearly in this because it fullfills some deep sexual need in her. What a find. She really enjoys herself which made the appt fantastic for me. I asked her if anyone she recognized has requested an appt. She said a lawyer who was friends with a family member tried to schedule...she didn't see him but didn't tell him why.
I imagine she is the type that most red blooded males would fantasize about.
Go for #1. You are both subject to outing each other, so who has more to risk? Unless, of course, you are her supervisor. Then you are hosed the moment you opened the door.
Lots of professional ladies in the hobby. One lady I've seen several times in another city is a practicing psychologist by day, a tremendous vixen by night! And, she told me has had to turn some guys down, because when she screened them, it was possible they knew her in her civilian job.
I don't work in the same department with this gal, I only learned her name by looking it up on the directory. I think you've got the best of it -- we're both at risk. However, I must admit I didn't give enough thought to the legalities of the thing (little head: meet big head). Still, some interesting responses. I think I'd whimp out and take the "non-invasive" way out.
I only brought them up because a good friend of mine just went through that situation, albeit not through the hobby. He inadvertantly fell victim to a manipulative intern's advances - she talked her way into his apartment with another girl after they had all been drinking together, and then threw it back in his face when she got pissed off at him. He immediately ran to his boss to explain the situation - that no actual indiscretion had occurred, that he had been a perfect gentleman to the two drunk ladies who slept in his bed (while he was on the couch), and then vowed never to get drunk with interns again.
So yeah, just remember that women can be manipulative bitches, and sticking with the well reviewed ladies that can't cause you employment trouble is the best bet.
Although, inaugurating your desk could be a fun activity 
...and is good at finding deals lol
So, I began to wonder. What if she was, and, unbeknownst to me or her, we scheduled a date (with faces hidden in pix, it would be easy to do, especially if you’re using datecheck or p411 for verification purposes). Then, she shows up at my place (looking even hotter than at work, of course) and we recognize each other . . . catch my drift?
I guess my options would be –
1) Welcome her in and enjoy ourselves, but never mention it again (IMPOSSIBLE, right?)
2) Welcome her in, maybe have a drink, but agree that this can’t happen (not bloody likely)
3) Blush and say we made a mistake and send her on her way (not empty handed, of course)
Has this ever happened to anyone? What did YOU do? Inquiring minds want to know.
#3
A friend of mine is in serious, serious shit at work over a relationship he claims was consensual, she claims not. My read is it started out that way, until either she had enough or her husband began to suspect something. Now claiming sexual assault, harrassment, etc.
Unless she has as much to lose as you do, and even then, you should walk away.
Has a sugar papi out of town. Why risk being a provider if you can rate a decent SD?
I doubt you will find her on any escort sites.
My .02
So, I began to wonder. What if she was, and, unbeknownst to me or her, we scheduled a date (with faces hidden in pix, it would be easy to do, especially if you’re using datecheck or p411 for verification purposes). Then, she shows up at my place (looking even hotter than at work, of course) and we recognize each other . . . catch my drift?
I guess my options would be –
1) Welcome her in and enjoy ourselves, but never mention it again (IMPOSSIBLE, right?)
2) Welcome her in, maybe have a drink, but agree that this can’t happen (not bloody likely)
3) Blush and say we made a mistake and send her on her way (not empty handed, of course)
Has this ever happened to anyone? What did YOU do? Inquiring minds want to know.
I guess that would explain why some agencies/ providers want your employment information! 
If it were me, I would go through with it. Ease her anxiousness, flatter her with pleasantly surprised its you, lets keep this our secret. Might be killing her at work to be keeping the secret, but having a confidant, and one that can cover for her - would be beneficial. At least that would be my fantasy of what it should be...reality, probably very different.
Hasn't happened to me, and the likelihood would be highly unlikely