...and I think I'm I your target demo; generous, respectful, not too old, etc; you're doing yourself a disservice by being outcall only- I think that most of the outcall guys are from outside of this area, and thus, less likely to be repeat clients...

....I am JUST smart enough to listen to Lee

You ask your target audience and the gentlemen that YOU want to book YOU, a question and when they don't give you the response you want, all you do is complain and blame everyone else ? These men are telling you what THEY are looking for when they are searching ads and telling you why you aren't busy and it's still a problem.  

No bbbj is one of the reasons I saw Jenny a couple of months back.  I prefer ladies who do not, figuring they are less likely to be carrying syphillis, etc.    (Jenny is very nice BTW.)
Like other guys though,  I require incall because others live at my residence.  However, I can certainly understand not wanting to sit in a hotel room all day.  That gets old fast

I'm offering outcall only. There is no location. Why has more than one person said the location is a red flag? This makes no sense.

I don't feel like I blamed anyone or complained.  All I did was stand up for myself. I did get some good feedback, and will take some advice. I'm considering offering incall one night a week. I did not put this thread up to drum up business. I asked an honest question, and got some good responses.  While everyone is entitled to their own opinion,  it doesn't mean I have to sit by idly while someone attacks my character.

The 3, 4, 5 account for 10 percent of my reviews over a six year period! How many of my reviews are 7 and up?

I didn't view your BP ad, but knowing you are on there..I didn't need to. Your website is cute, although I'm not sure it projects the portrayal you are hoping for. There are a few things I think could help somewhat..nothing can change your reviews, except possibly learning from them and improving every meeting for the future. (And hoping some of them write new reviews)  Other then that, here are a few things that could be somewhat helpful...  First, have some new photos done that portray you the way you want to be seen. Second, do not ever show your face! A small glimpse is one thing, but not only do you put yourself and those who visit you at risk.. you give a less discreet image of yourself which can make others less comfortable with you. Not only those contacting you for meetings, but other ladies who may be contacted by those same gentleman providing you as a reference. If someone contacts me with a reference or references who are under a certain dollar amount, (not only does this mean they are seeing MANY more gentleman regularly, but because of that..they are not really getting to know the gentleman, and I wouldn't trust their reference as much) are on BP and or shows her face, she is less credible to me, and makes me think twice about the gentleman, and I wouldn't accept his reference. Hope I didn't offend anyone, just another perspective to consider. And, I commend you on your safety, not everyone is here to provide the same type of service as others. Good luck!  Aerial  

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I don't know why ladies put ads up without them.  I know I for one often just browse, not really in the market at the time being.  But I like to see what's out there or whats coming soon.

I know I may have gotten a little feisty at times.  But, I do want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who participated in this thread.  There were some valid points made, and I will take incall into consideration. Thank you to those who sent me private messages as well.

You look very *uckable to me! Youre priced on the high side (but not much) but the one thing I just hate is password protected photos. Just a PITA to deal with. And you always wonder what youre missing.  

EDIT: Probably should have read a little more before I commented. NO DFK and $50 upcharge for DATY just broke the deal for me. Sorry.  

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D.C. is a very tough market.  As a frequent hobbyist, it is awesome.  For providers, it must be tough.

no picture in the add?
that would probably explain why 1/2 who see it don't look further.
If no photo, I don't bother.
The very first exposure we have to providers is their ad - let guys see you right away!!  That is you hook!
You have 3 seconds to grab our attention!
I don't understand why some don't get this simple point.
We don't want to waste our time clicking on links and then navigating through a webpage.
If you are expecting guys to do this, you are putting yourself at a competitive disadvantage right from the start.

I only indulge every 4-5 years, so I try to avoid making a mistake. Last week I made a list of possibilities--and yes, you were on the list. (Maybe 10 on list.) But I never called you. Why?  1) you obviously have two huge fans on Naughty Reviews, but TER is less positive. It led me to believe (maybe wrongly) that you warm up to people after seeing them multiple times (the huge fans on Naughty Reviews seem to be almost boyfriends), but are less interested if you see someone once. Fair enough from your point of view, but not from mine.  2) DATY is a must, and not an extra. It's obviously not a health issue, since you do it. I would much rather pay $250 up front than pay $200 and find out you're trying to pry an extra $50 out of me to lick your pussy...and give YOU an orgasm. Presumably you like to have orgasms. Why charge?  If it's repulsive to you, you're in the wrong business. Your last couple TER reviews were confusing on this---one mentioned an extra charge, the other didn't....so which is it? The potential client is confused (I was) and confused potential clients move on to girls who are not confusing (sort of like real life dating!!!)  3) BBBJ--who cares, as far as I'm concerned. I think your comments are right on. Stick to your guns.  4) your photos--I've found several in different places. Which portray the real you? My own opinion is that you should ONLY post recent photos. If people don't like them, too bad. Next, ditch the slutty (maybe some people would just call them "sexy") photos (this just confuses the "GND" brand you're trying (?) to create. You bill yourself as the Girl Next Door. Go with that--embrace it. Let the photos portray that fantasy--and some of the photos of you I found do just that, although they're probably not recent. To me there is absolutely nothing sexier than a GND or a MILF in a business suit, but one who is really sexy once you get them alone. Why not embrace this niche market?  Very few girls out there do, and I personally think if that's how you presented yourself (which is probably the real you anyway!) you would be overwhelmed with attention.  5) location.  Well, Montgomery County had a big LEO effort a couple years ago, so anyone in their right mind would avoid that.  Waldorf???  Well, not to be insulting, but the word "class" and "Waldorf" don't match in my brain. Also it's way the Hell out of the way. I know it's probably stupid, etc. etc., but that's the way it is.  Tyson's Corner?  Sure. Bethesda or Silver Spring?  Yup. NW DC? Yes again. Why not do incall at hotels in various "classy" spots?  6) outcall vs. incall.  If you've read even a fraction of the reviews on TER, you realize there are a LOT of girls out there who simply take your information and do nothing for you--once they're got your personal information, you're vulnerable to blackmail. This is DC, after all, and not Kansas City. And don't forget the DC Madam. No information is private once you give it to an escort, ever. I never, ever, give any real information about myself. My cell phone?  A burner I pay for with cash. Outcall:  Well, no one in their right mind is going to invite you to their home.  Let's do the math:  an hour of ecstasy vs. a life ruined. No contest.  If I rent a hotel room, all of a sudden I have a paper trail. And of course another expense, probably in the $100+ range. Why would I do that?  And why would you prefer outcall?  Surely the extra travel can't be fun. And surely there must be lots of cases where you turn up and the guy has changed his mind or disappeared, or never existed, etc. I get that you don't want to sit in a hotel room all day. But why not make it clear what your hours are, and drive there when necessary? 7) Finally, I just looked at your calendar on your web site. Blank. Why? And another thing that drives me nuts, although I have no idea if it applies to you--like any service business, you need to treat potential customers with consideration. If they call and leave a message, call them back. If they are jerks, be polite anyway. But respond. If they try to discuss naughty things on the phone, simply say "I don't want to discuss that sort of thing on the phone," and hang up. This is all very long because as I said at the beginning, I found you very beguiling, and I really wish you well. I might even call--but only if it's incall!