Just wanting to give a friendly heads up without getting too deep into drama-  

* PSA for clients about a scam/set up with a touring provider  
* thoughts on deposits from both points of view  

I 100% understand now that most ladies require deposits to book, especially on tour. Having a client book and no show is definitely a bummer. That being said, I’ve noticed both from the ladies and the clients that its becoming an issue. Gents, please know that when you’re being screened, we ladies can understand past behaviors and bookings you’ve made and how you handle yourself, so please mind your P’s & Q’s as karma can catch up. The way you approach a booking, how easy or difficult you make it on us to screen & overall tact plays a huge role on if I decide to proceed with scheduling or not. That woman intuition though!!!  

I personally don’t require a deposit with a booking (unless someone has a record of being a no show or last min cancel with other providers in the past) I give the benefit of the doubt and just require a cancelation fee next time if someone doesn’t come through when booking. It all works out in the end.  

I’m a provider on the side as a fun job and it’s not what puts food on my table so I have the luxury of flexibility. If a lady is asking for a deposit and has a solid online presence, awesome. Please respect her policy and know she’s not trying to be a bitch or invasive, she’s being a smart business woman and securing her precious time.  If she doesn’t require it but you have to cancel on her last min, maybe a gentleman gesture of a 25% gift or Amazon gift card goes a long way. (*** hint hint ***) Yes guys, we talk amongst each other and considerate moves on your part go a long way!!! We love that shit and it will show in our enthusiasm when we’re together in person Guaranteed. I love to go above and beyond always, but when a client is genuinely considerate, I am definitely turned on and it shows!!!

Client Safety:

Gents, just a heads up re: a touring provider who is currently visiting DC (304 area code, for now) she has scammed more than one client of mine this week. Definitely advertises on Try__, not sure where else. Not trying to get caught up in drama with her pimp (yes she asks for a pimp fee 😬) but just beware. Her name rhymes with “Schmelley” ...and that’s all I’ll say about that.  

I love this industry and want the best for all of us, ladies & gents. Let’s keep up the integrity on both ends and enjoy the hell out of our time together!  

I’ll get off my soapbox now. Thank you DC for having me. I always enjoy my tours here 🙏