Foe some time now I have been waiting 30 minuted after the scheduled time and then leaving if I don't hear from the lady.  Today though I was talking to some friends and they had very different ideas.  I was wondering what others thing.

I doubt though that we will reach a consensus.  I ask out of curiosity only.

If you have no voice mails or emails from the provider and it is 15 minutes after your appointment was supposed to start, I would leave.  We all have better things to do with our precious time.

Thankfully, that has never happened to me.

If I really have the time, and I really want to see her. However, 'adjustments' will need to be made for my time.

If I really want to see her maybe 30 mins.

If you arrive earlier that your date its understandable the lady may need a few minutes to prepare but 10-15 minutes should be MORE than enough wait time.

After 5-7 minutes the lady ( or agency) should be amenable to extending the amount time the gent spends with her.

Just the right time frame for incall--outcall 30-45 minutes--if not by then a problem has occurred and best to cancel.

I am always on time and very often ready early to meet the gent who is coming to see me.  I do not like to be left waiting.  So, I give the people I see the same consideration.

There was one time that my phone had a problem.  I was ready 15 minutes before the appointment time.  15 minutes past the hour, I kept checking my phone to see if he had called.  Then when I tried to call him, there was a problem with my phone!  Bleh!  Fortunately, I have three phones so I was able to call him and make ammends.  That was the only time I was ever late for an appointment in 2 years.  

Read the ladies reviews.  If the gent says he was left waiting.  Prepare to wait.  The only other option is to keep searching and reading reviews until you find a lady who the guys say is on time.

15 minutes is the new standard for me.  After 15 minutes, if there is no call, there isn't going to be one. I've waited past 30 minutes on 4 occassions in the past and it has never resulted in a call back.

I usually arrive about 5 minutes early and give a call. If they don't call back in 15 minutes, something must be wrong so I leave. it shouldn't take more than 15 minutes to get ready, If they are going to be late , a courtesy call should be in order.  It's best to do your research , and book you time with quality providers.

....and they are NCNS.
I have waited up to 30 min.
Waiting longer than 7min yields no ROI.

There's no excuse for not contacting you to say she's running late.

xoxo,

Steph

Like some here, I have had my share of tardy people. It comes with the territory and the hobby. Most of the laidies I have seen have been on time. I am usually 10 to 15 mins early, cause I hate lateness. That is my cushion of having a traffic slow down, getting a little lost, or finding a parking garage downtown. I will admit to be late twice because I was asked to bring lunch once and a camera once, so I had to stop, but that was understood.

I have had the following excuses for lateness, in there own words verbal or texts:
1.) I was drinking late last nite and I fell asleep (during the day) and did not hear the phone.
2.) The battery in my phone died and when you did not call I thought you were a NCNS. This one really made it up to me. A one hour appt turned into a 4 hour sex a thon the next day.
3.) I slipped on some ice, hit my head on the fender, my phone went into a puddle and died and I went to the emergency room to get stitches. As soon as I am better, I will make it up to you.
4.) I had a family emergency and I had to leave town just before you showed up and I forgot to tell you.
5.) I was in the bathroom with a family emergency and the phone was not close by when you called.  I will make it up to you.
6. The worst (in Tampa) - I am driving round your hotel, and being followed by LE and I don't want to stop and bring them to you. I have this lit J that I been smokin and cant afford to get busted again. Can we try again tommorrow when I am less high, and not being followed.  "Ummm NO."  

So all in all I understand that things happen in everyones life. If I don't find out what happened later, it makes me mad. If your gonna be late on either side of the equation, you need to communicate somehow.