I am relatively new to the hobby (three months active) and still have a lot to learn.  

You can also generate other pairs of extreme explanations. Generalizations are not much help.

.... if no response in 48hrs try again and wait another 48hrs and if nothing move on.
I also suggest trying alternative methods .... send an email, and a PM if she uses review sites like this or verification sites like P411 and if she accepts text then text her also.  Be thorough and if she responds to none of them well you've done all you could.

Works both ways. My rule 24 hrs both ways. Move on. Somw ladies more than others just hold off committing until their dance card gets clear or full eg vivian. Now that they got new place ans new lady hope that will change but we will see. My vote visiting low voulume ladues. They got numbers they need to make and try to dp that before they get her

actually, I found the intelligence, wisdom, and savvy of this post to be a bit of a turn on, to tell the truth, lol.

Don't know about others but I dont think I've used the contact forms on ladies's websites as much as I get in touch through P411 or email. Usually hear back quickly. If I don't hear in a day or two I just go elsewhere. I like to start  the process about a week in advance of when I want to meet.

The point of my post was that mind-reading another person is a futile waste of time. Non response is itself a response. Move along.

I had a provider who responded to me after a year and a half,  coincidentally right when I was in her town.  It was almost as if she had been tracking my location lol  It was worth the wait though,  she provided an excellent service.  

..FLAWED.  Great question though.  Similar to my NCNS response in a thread below, IMHO and experience providers can go from ATFs to crack heads in 60 seconds.  

...have been very professional. It's unfortunate your experiences have been otherwise.

Seems you're fairly new to this and don't know what you're talking about.  

Just because I don't write reviews all the time, and just because I don't camp out on TER doesn't mean my statement above is not true.

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Better be able to think on your feet, have good instincts, and have thick skin.
With no rule of law, the only thing holding providers and hobbiests in-check is their reputations.
Little things that wouldn't affect reviews - like relations to ALL potential customers - don't exactly matter when your demand surpases your ability to supply - as unlike most businesses, the ladies can't exactly clone themselves to match demand.  Because of this, they can largely winnow the herd however they see fit.  And not replying is the easiest way, as it winnows the herd and saves time at the same time (which is essentially what Julia said ).

Best to just stay quiet and not make a fool out of yourself, NEWBIE.    

Since you are new, allow me to simplify things for you.

Thank you for your helpful response.

WHAT 2 to 4 Days, LOL...Are you kidding me....I'm more of a fly by the seat of my pants type of hobbyist, so usually if I don't hear back in 2hrs at most, I already made plans with someone else, or made a booty call to one of my civvie players on the roster.

1) high review count is no indication of "knowing better" or being more senior
2) "__________" has no reviews as far as can be seen

i'm sometimes really bad at responding in a timely manner... but this similar thing happened to me today- and man, am i peeved!

that makes things go just like butter... smooth and slick!

I hear all the time that guys really appreciate how great I am at responding and replying to their emails. I also hear many times how some girls are pretty flaky and their emails go unanswered. I am a provider and yes I have a life outside of being a provider, in fact I am in the baby stages of starting my owning business but I still MAKE the time to check emails and respond to them accordingly. I post my schedule every week and that isn't to keep me young, it's to gain appointments!  

This is an alias... or are you too dumb to notice that

1) Thinking review count = wisdom, knowledge, judgment, trustworthiness. It means nothing of the sort. It only means you have a lot of reviews. While some folks with many reviews are worthy of respect others are fools who get themselves into trouble.

But the simple fact is you're pretty condescending for someone with no verifiable history. In case you're too dumb to notice, that was the point. But you do have a stellar couple of weeks of postings that we can review. Let's see, in that time:

Maybe he's a 13 yo kid playing by himself in a basement? Don't know, don't care.

Shows your newness.  It reads of it

I respond because it is entertaining to see how deeply you will dig this hole for yourself.

If I'm looking at some possible candidates for a business trip coming up six weeks down the road -- well, I tell them roughly what time frame I'm looking at in my initial "Hey, how ya doin'?" email.  I do *not* expect that I will remain on her radar for more than a couple of days if I'm clearly just kicking the tires, but if I say, "Here's my screening information, my references, and I'm looking for 8 PM on Saturday April 5th for a 2-hour outcall to my hotel at such-and-such address", then I appreciate some kind of response.