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How I got caught
dcphil 15 Reviews 906 reads
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Several of you have PM as to how I caught

She found a Twitter message and that I was following a provider

Be careful with Twitter since antone can read your messages

My dumb mistake

I'll be back when things die down. I've enjoyed these lovely providers and had some great times with the

dcphil2000 reads

To all the lovely providers I have met, thank you for a great time

To the providers I never got to meet, sorry we didn't get together

The wife found out about my hobby so I have to quit  

Take care and have fun

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DMVMonger807 reads

Once a monger always a monger

Posted By: dcphil
To all the lovely providers I have met, thank you for a great time  
   
 To the providers I never got to meet, sorry we didn't get together  
   
 The wife found out about my hobby so I have to quit  
   
 Take care and have fun

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ICantQuit490 reads

Been there done that.  Got busted and all that.  This alias was created from that expereince.  I swore to never hobby again.  Duh!!

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inicky46659 reads

Sorry to hear it.  I hope the consequences are not too severe.  I really feel for you guys who have to hide what you do.

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!!!!!476 reads

Take care of your wife

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dcphil595 reads

I see I'm not the only one who got caught.  I agree that I've had so much fun with these lovely women that it's hard to think of it ending after 4 years

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DrivenHarder572 reads

We all have needs that I feel most wives fail to understand and most men fail to articulate. (and vice versa)

Forgive me for the pedantic stance but hopefully this'll help those of us with the primal need.  

https://missionwife.wordpress.com/2012/08/05/10-things-sex/

I think the post does a good job of stating the perspective that most husbands fail to state themselves.  

So, anything you can share with the community to help us know what could be done differently as to get caught. :-P

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dcphil907 reads

Several of you have PM as to how I caught

She found a Twitter message and that I was following a provider

Be careful with Twitter since antone can read your messages

My dumb mistake

I'll be back when things die down. I've enjoyed these lovely providers and had some great times with the

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2236707472 reads

Preserveth thou thy White Lists and References, for surely thee will needest them upon your second rising.

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JimmyLuv2429 reads

No matter how clever we think we are, an SO may very well have a intuitive knowledge of us that tells her something is amiss, and if she looks hard enough, there may be clues.

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Rudy50403 reads

Back when I was hobbying occasionally, I also had civilian partners.  For Mutual Assured Destruction strategy the only civilians I played with were also married.  Before any clothes were shed we discussed needs and methods of discretion and secrecy.  I was also a member of a married-but-looking internet discussion board in those days, and I connected with one of my partners through that board.  Several months after our relationship faded and we stopped seeing each other and she stopped posting to the board, I wrote a post on the board discussing how much fun I was having with a new partner.  Ex-partner (who knew my real identity) was still reading the board, took exception and  tracked down wife to out me.   Wife was upset but I think there was some wilful ignorance going on before the bust.  It turned out that the bunny boiler had a Don't Ask Don't Tell arrangement in her marriage, so the MAD policy didn't work

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ponyman49564 reads

she found out but not divorcing you. how did she find out?

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dcphil517 reads

She saw a Twitter message from me to a provider.  She's pissed but wants to work it out.

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Hello.Duchess535 reads

Twitter messaging doesn't prove anything. Of course, if you've already fessed to the deed(s), then you're cooked.

Most wives don't want to believe their husbands are capable of straying (nor do they want a divorce) and will meet you more than half way in a semi-plausible story to preserve the status quo.

The worst thing you can do is confess. I truly believe the wives would rather buy the lie rather than put their faith in the promise of changed future ways -- which is a very tough sell, in any circumstance.

Discretion in all things.

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Chief22201319 reads

Wow, Duchess - laying down some cold hard truth.  

It's fascinating to hear a female perspective on getting caught.  Any others out there care to share??

Posted By: Hello.Duchess
Twitter messaging doesn't prove anything. Of course, if you've already fessed to the deed(s), then you're cooked.  
   
 Most wives don't want to believe their husbands are capable of straying (nor do they want a divorce) and will meet you more than half way in a semi-plausible story to preserve the status quo.  
   
 The worst thing you can do is confess. I truly believe the wives would rather buy the lie rather than put their faith in the promise of changed future ways -- which is a very tough sell, in any circumstance.  
   
 Discretion in all things.

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