: Washington DC Discussion : How do you keep your “hobby” secret from your SO?

AngelSpencer See my TER Reviews 1521 reads

posted 12 years ago

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How do you keep your “hobby” secret from your SO?

I have a GREAT encounter with a very nice gentleman last week. He was a true sweetheart! After playtime, he made a comment about his wife having the nose of a bloodhound. As funny as it sounds I begin to wonder what precautions gentleman take when seeing a provider. I think we (the ladies) should always have the necessities on hand for such an occasion (Personal hygiene items, hangers, iron and ironing board, etc.). Personally, I have an abundance of items for such a case of ripping a piece of clothing or two.
Yes, it does happen from time to time. LOL!

Seriously, what are some of the precautions that guys take in hiding the hobby form your SO?
Ladies, what are some of the things that you do for your attached clients

74tonyfortune 843 reads

posted 12 years ago

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dont have to worrt

Widower!! But I like to have time be for work or during a 2 break I have.

Posted By: YourDCMuse

I have a GREAT encounter with a very nice gentleman last week. He was a true sweetheart! After playtime, he made a comment about his wife having the nose of a bloodhound. As funny as it sounds I begin to wonder what precautions gentleman take when seeing a provider. I think we (the ladies) should always have the necessities on hand for such an occasion (Personal hygiene items, hangers, iron and ironing board, etc.). Personally, I have an abundance of items for such a case of ripping a piece of clothing or two.
Yes, it does happen from time to time. LOL!

Seriously, what are some of the precautions that guys take in hiding the hobby form your SO?
Ladies, what are some of the things that you do for your attached clients?

wrps07 760 reads

posted 12 years ago

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Re: Got a divorce.

And get the wife to pay you off some extra when you get the divorce.

LoneWolfDC 822 reads

posted 12 years ago

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Take a shower, but don't use the soap...

(Unless you regularly go to the gym at work in which case you can get away with smelling fresh and clean)

But yeah, take a shower in the hottest water that you can stand, and just scrub yourself with the washcloth, but no soap. You'll remove any errant smells, but not replace them with anything...

Simply taking the stairs down instead of the elevator can build up enough perspiration to give you a natural smell...

That, Google Voice, and a hobby email address......

jeffdogger 9 Reviews 541 reads

posted 12 years ago

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Or at least move out and start divorce process (e)

END OF MESSAGE

oralconniseur 10 Reviews 785 reads

posted 12 years ago

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I carry my hobby bag which has

the same personal care products I use at home. The same soap, shampoo, toothpaste etc...I also have a shower at my business, so I can always freshen up there before a date or before heading home. I have several changes of clothing (jeans, shirt, underwear etc...) which is no problem getting into the wash since I help with the laundry.

Also always request the provider to not wear any perfume or scents.

!!!!! 792 reads

posted 12 years ago

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Not too many replies from guys with an SO.

Probably not a good idea to ask guys how they cheat on their SOs.

As for me, I started the "hobby" 3 years after separation.

wrps07 1155 reads

posted 12 years ago

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Many had early retirement from the hobby.

Due to high family health insurance costs.

jeffdogger 9 Reviews 647 reads

posted 12 years ago

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But, this method is outrageously expensive

and not recommended as a good way to avoid detection as a sole reason. Cost may divert resources away from hobby. However, it does solve other problems and the detection thing is a side benefit. It is nice to not have to remember to clean my computer after each use, not have to come up with explanations for absences, etc.

cocktail-party 848 reads

posted 12 years ago

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Two answers for ya...

1. Many clients don't get off on deceiving the SO, instead it's a necessary evil. Talking about it here is only gonna remind them of their guilt.

2. Tricks of the trade? A magician never reveals. There are some wives on here. It's a good sign that people have chosen to be discreet rather than broadcast their methods in a public format.

AmberAffection See my TER Reviews 858 reads

posted 12 years ago

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My fiance knows, doesn't care. But

For the guys who visit me, they shower before & after. I definitely noticed that trend.

My quitting isnt for my hubby, but for legal and mental reasons.

mash1000 11 Reviews 755 reads

posted 12 years ago

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Hobby hiding

Kept it a secret for about 2.5 yrs, course she was having affairs so I thought I needed a little fun, but she found out and seems that seeing an escort is a deal breaker! I suggest though, hobby phone, separate secret email acct, I hour trysts, remove cash from accts a lttle at a time!