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How do you keep your “hobby” secret from your SO?
AngelSpencer See my TER Reviews 1521 reads
posted
1 / 12

I have a GREAT encounter with a very nice gentleman last week. He was a true sweetheart! After playtime, he made a comment about his wife having the nose of a bloodhound. As funny as it sounds I begin to wonder what precautions gentleman take when seeing a provider. I think we (the ladies) should always have the necessities on hand for such an occasion (Personal hygiene items, hangers, iron and ironing board, etc.). Personally, I have an abundance of items for such a case of ripping a piece of clothing or two.  
Yes, it does happen from time to time. LOL!

Seriously, what are some of the precautions that guys take in hiding the hobby form your SO?
Ladies, what are some of the things that you do for your attached clients

74tonyfortune 843 reads
posted
2 / 12

Widower!! But I like to have time be for work or during a 2 break I have.  

Posted By: YourDCMuse
I have a GREAT encounter with a very nice gentleman last week. He was a true sweetheart! After playtime, he made a comment about his wife having the nose of a bloodhound. As funny as it sounds I begin to wonder what precautions gentleman take when seeing a provider. I think we (the ladies) should always have the necessities on hand for such an occasion (Personal hygiene items, hangers, iron and ironing board, etc.). Personally, I have an abundance of items for such a case of ripping a piece of clothing or two.  
 Yes, it does happen from time to time. LOL!  
   
 Seriously, what are some of the precautions that guys take in hiding the hobby form your SO?  
 Ladies, what are some of the things that you do for your attached clients?  
 

wrps07 760 reads
posted
3 / 12

And get the wife to pay you off some extra when you get the divorce.

LoneWolfDC 822 reads
posted
4 / 12

(Unless you regularly go to the gym at work in which case you can get away with smelling fresh and clean)

But yeah, take a shower in the hottest water that you can stand, and just scrub yourself with the washcloth, but no soap.  You'll remove any errant smells, but not replace them with anything...

Simply taking the stairs down instead of the elevator can build up enough perspiration to give you a natural smell...

That, Google Voice, and a hobby email address......

oralconniseur 10 Reviews 785 reads
posted
6 / 12

the same personal care products I use at home. The same soap, shampoo, toothpaste etc...I also have a shower at my business, so I can always freshen up there before a date or before heading home. I have several changes of clothing (jeans, shirt, underwear etc...) which is no problem getting into the wash since I help with the laundry.  

Also always request the provider to not wear any perfume or scents.

!!!!! 792 reads
posted
7 / 12

Probably not a good idea to ask guys how they cheat on their SOs.

As for me, I started the "hobby" 3 years after separation.

wrps07 1155 reads
posted
8 / 12

Due to high family health insurance costs.

jeffdogger 9 Reviews 647 reads
posted
9 / 12

and not recommended as a good way to avoid detection as a sole reason. Cost may divert resources away from hobby. However, it does solve other problems and the detection thing is a side benefit. It is nice to not have to remember to clean my computer after each use, not have to come up with explanations for absences, etc.

cocktail-party 848 reads
posted
10 / 12

1. Many clients don't get off on deceiving the SO, instead it's a necessary evil. Talking about it here is only gonna remind them of their guilt.

2. Tricks of the trade? A magician never reveals. There are some wives on here. It's a good sign that people have chosen to be discreet rather than broadcast their methods in a public format.

AmberAffection See my TER Reviews 858 reads
posted
11 / 12

For the guys who visit me, they shower before & after. I definitely noticed that trend.

 
My quitting isnt for my hubby, but for legal and mental reasons.

mash1000 11 Reviews 755 reads
posted
12 / 12

Kept it a secret for about 2.5 yrs, course she was having affairs so I thought I needed a little fun, but she found out and seems that seeing an escort is a deal breaker! I suggest though, hobby phone, separate secret email acct, I hour trysts, remove cash from accts a lttle at a time!

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