Washington DC
hey sweetie..I definitely agree! EOM
Ladies & Gents,
This Whitelist feature of TER is the BEST way to get verified for a quick date. I do get a few last minute requests for dates as I am sure other providers do as well. For me safety is a key and I know that there are date-check and other system, but there is nothing like coming to TER, do a quick search and seeing that a few well known providers have given the gent a referral!.
I make it a habit to do whitelist on weekly basis. I figure the gents take their time to write a review for me and the least I can do is to spend a few minutes and whitelist them.
I really like to encourage all gents to request it from your favorite provider and all providers to take the time to do the whitelist.
I agree Sidney. Can you please white list me 
How do you get onto the white list?
The whitelist does not compare to our reviews. We dont get to give our opinion.
When you decide to whitelist a gentleman it should be done with alot of thought. You are basically giving them a perfect 10 in all aspects. IMHO it's a very prestigious gift to whitelist a gentleman. And it should be used wisely. Dont get me wrong. There are alot of guys that are well deserving but just because someone reviews you does not mean they should be whitelisted.
Just my 2 cents...
I completely agree with MeaCulpa. Whitelisting should not be quid pro quo for a review. That would completely dilute the value of whitlisting. It is an honor that should be earned, whether that be the guys performace,attitude, polite behavior or something else.
Well put. I personally prefer not to write reviews, but have several whitelist referrals. Some of the ladies have done them without me asking after our first meeting. Others I have asked after seeing them several times. But I prefer to only get whitelist referrals from well known and respected ladies.
Referrals from every lady a guy sees would defeat the purpose.
wow, I didn't realize we got rated by the ladies in Date-check. any way to find out our score?
Ask a provider you know and she can show your ratings by providers.
White Listings for me are simply for vanity.
I apply them to only the most deserving clients; and others who could pass verification using me as a reference get shafted if I feel that they are YMMV or I have any doubt about them.
With Date-Check I can apply an appropriate reference to everyone without writing any details and that to me, is why Date-Check is better.
WhiteListings can be political; some clients think that if they write a review they deserve one and will pressure a provider to post one to their profile.
Date-Check on the other hand? I assign a referral to EVERYONE or I assign them an ID if they have one.
Date-Check is better for the screening process because it offers different designations.
A provider can indicate if a client is excellent, good/fair, to be completely avoided, if he doesn't show up for his appointments without notification and if he's just plain YMMV.
A provider can truly get a sense of who she will be interacting with because she can see if the client is CONSISTENT in his interaction with providers.
It is without a doubt, one stop shopping for me.
In addition to giving a discount to Date-Check members to encourage use of that system, when I see that ID # on my reservation its pretty much a done deal so long as they have references from providers (and aren't just approved through employment by the system, though employment verification through DC has seen a lot of clients through my screening - especially self-employed clients).
The White List is okay as a supplement, but verification services (Preferred411, RSK2000) are superior in my opinion.
So clients, don't request a White List from everyone- you may get your feelings hurt (I have had clients berate me in the past for not applying one, opting instead to serve as a personal reference only or providing DC).
If a provider wants to apply one, she will, just as if you want to review her, you will. It isn't an exchange.
I completely support and encorage your right to screen in any way that makes you feel comfortable, but I have to say some guys like to be a member of only one site / commuity. When I retired from the USAF I decided to come out from UTR with my hobbying, and I checked out P411, RSK2000, DateCheck and TER. I don't want to deal with being a memeber of multiple sites with the multiple monthly payments that go with it. I ultimately decided on joining TER, because I like this community the best.
Having said that, being WhiteListed is pretty important to me, and something I will never pester or harass for since I consider it a pretty high honor from a Lady.
It is fun to see a lady put her self on a guys white list.
Take it off for a year.
Then a year later put herself back on the white list.
I agree with those who say it is an honor and I personally have never asked to be Whitelisted. I feel that is something the lady does if she feels I deserve it.
I was whitelisted and found out by accident when a lady mentioned it. I then contacted the provider and thanked her for thinking so highly of me. That being said I now keep that in mind when I see a lady as I feel there is an expectation that must be upheld, as ladies now expect me to keep to a "higher standard" if you will.
To me, it means doing everything within my power to keep appts, not rushing to whine if there is a missed communication but trying to give the lady the benefit of the doubt and get clarafication of the situation, not blatantly bad mouthing anyone without all the information, etc. These are things I've tried to do even before it existed, but now I am mindful. This does not equate to kissing up, but rather being fair and objective in all situations.
Change my last post to what Nubian said...he stated it far better than I did.
What did she mean when she said " Surely you jest" or "You have to be kidding me" or "You have me confused with someone who likes you" or
" I was going to white list you but I changed my mind" or " Not this Year" or " I hope no one knows I was with you" or " Are you out of your mind" or a very unusual laugh..
Rejection doesn't bother me ..If I was a stripper I would ask everyone for lap dances over and over again..and some more
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