or did they stick with the existing rules so no session no review? Would have PM'ed but no VIP so that wasn't possible.
Just curious as our discussion got me thinking about something.
This morning I had a confirmed appointment for 10 am with a lovely TS girl with great reviews in Tysons. I was within a few blocks of the apartment and texted the girl. She texted back “text me when you are about to arrive.”
She had earlier reconfirmed the time and appointment with Mel before I left my house. So, I parked and texted her that I was parked. Nothing back. I texted several more times,, with no answer. I kept trying for 1/2 hour, and then had to leave. I had virtually the same thing a couple weeks earlier, with another well reviewed provider.
Now, Idk if it is the provider trying to jam in another client on my time, or the booker. I am beyond pissed.
When I am ghosted by a provider, I lose a precious, rare morning away from my caretaking duties.. Time is very important to me, and these stupid bookers totally waste what little I have.
So, Idk if I can out the guilty here or not, but I want revenge, and warn our brothers here.
Do you think I can name them here? Or would you dm me for the names?
You wasted time=money as well as opportunity cost, and were frustrated with their unresponsiveness. At the very least they could've responded to you.
Unless the booker/provider has a very believable emergency excuse, I don't see why they don't do that again to someone else. If you tell on them publicly then they might do it less often.
To me the choice is obvious. I don't want any bribe or money from a seller who ghosts appointments. I want others to be aware that it can happen to them. Air them out.
TS Daisy Lee was today
Ellie was a couple weeks ago
I wrote a review of her, let’s see if it gets approved.
If you never saw her and didn't loose a deposit I don't see how you can review the session that never happened or report a rip-off that didn't happen.
Posting your experience to the discussion board is your outlet, unless of course the TER admins have change the policy on reviewing when you never met the escort.
Well, there should be some way to post a warning to all the guys thinking of booking her. A review would reach the most effective group of people. But the mods disallowed a review. SO, I reported her to the mods for offering me a bribe to not get a bad review.
I sent a screenshot to them as proof.
I then reported the whole issue to the other sites she is on. I’m hoping she gets booted off the sites, as a consequence.
She picked the wrong guy to ghost.
You did the right thing imo. That's the attitude brother! I would do the same.
Your post here is a warning to others and it is the way customers in the past have got their experience out to others for at least the past 15 years. Let's see that happens but don't be disappointed if the review isn't published for the reason mentioned. If you feel strongly about it and want to do a little work to help the other guy out, assuming no review is published, make a document to cut and past and then make a weekly post about her.
My gripe is that this is not as effective a place to report this as a review would be. To put the specific info in front of guys about to decide to book her would be ideal to prevent guys from taking a risk with an uncaring and thoughtless provider. Here, not all the guys who need that report will see it.
I know that the rule for reviews disallows a review like mine, but it shouldn’t. I have seen reviews before where clients only got as far as the door and turned around. Their review is just as valid as any other review, and so is mine. Having my time and energy wasted like this is every bit as valid as other reviews. A review provides a heads up to our friends here, so they are warned that they may be ghosted. I would have loved to hear about their little game ahead of time. This is not the first time this has happened to me or other guys. The best place for a report on this practice is in a review of the provider. I sent proof of her attempt to bribe me to moderators. The ball is in their court to penalize her for violating terms of service and abusing a paying member here. I have also reported her to her other ad sites. I’m done with providers ghosting me and wasting my rare time off. I’ll never get that morning back.
The people looking for feedback for the provider will look first at their reviews. If they can't find it there, it's unlikely they will search the forums, etc.
And if they do search the forums the providers name probably need to be a part of the topic, with their ter id or something.
That is both obvious and certainly fine. Everyone has some things or experiences they think should be reviewable but don't fit the standard. That's just how the world works, everything has some exception settings that don't fit the mold.
But let us know if TER agrees with you and posts the review of the ghosted session.
Nope. The powers won’t post it.
or did they stick with the existing rules so no session no review? Would have PM'ed but no VIP so that wasn't possible.
Just curious as our discussion got me thinking about something.
Nope. My review was not approved. I guess that offering bribes for good reviews is ok with the moderators.
I thought their offer was to keep you from writing a bad review but okay. And I'm a bit surprised if you have something documenting their attempt to influence writing a review that TER is not doing anything -- but do get that a review might not be the place to deal with that situation.
As for the ghosting at the incall, I do agree that something like that is good to share, and that just a board post is not the best way since the post will drop out of sight pretty quickly and anyone just checking reviews will not know. Which got me thinking, are there other situations like yours where something would be good to track but a review cannot be written just for that or for some other reason doesn't fit into a review but is not considered private and non-disclosable (like a real name or location address...)
So what if rather than a review, people could attach some "quick report" note to the profile? Some standards for what can and cannot be added is probably needed but that would allow this type of event to be documented, and so tracked -- is this a habit or some one-off event? --which would add value.
But I don't think TER would have much interest in putting work in for something like that if arriving to the incall and then getting ghosted is the only thing that would be reported. But off the top of my head I've not thought of other cases that might be good candidates where it a review cannot be written or it doesn't fit into a review that can be submitted and approved.
What bugs me is that I submitted the information and provided the text of the bribe to the mods.. Bribing is against the terms of service. That’s pretty clear. So, they are choosing to ignore this violation. It feels like being victimized twice. Once by the provider ghosting me, and by the mods not following their own guidelines.
We agree on that. If someone gives TER clear evidence of a bribe that provider or agency should be banned or placed on some probation where reviews are hidden and reviews not accepted for some stated period. But that is different than what is going on with a review and can be done whether or not a review is accepted.
Maybe in that case the profile should be tagged like Rip-Offs are (from what I hear, I have not actually looked at one).
Any bad experiences such as this one in the form of link to TER forums (and/or other forums if available or possible) .
Would that be helpful?
That way the customer could see these reports for themselves and decide for themselves how trustworthy they are. As these aren't allowed to be in reviews theyd be auxiliary tools so to speak.
Any solution that puts the info in front of a potential client, who is looking for reviews of a dishonest provider, would provide warning.
I think that would be good.
Well, the moderator closed my complaint without any comment.
After everything, even resending the link to her attempted bribe, which was clear and unmistakable, the webmasters did nothing despite the violation of their rules. If I knew then what so know now, I would take the money. It would, at least, cause her some loss. Unlike now, when she has lost nothing.
I wish I could quantify how many guys decided not to book with her. It would be nice to be able to tell her how much business she lost.