I have found it incredibly difficult to cope with many of the not-so-gentle men who contact me from ANYWHERE.

Huh?

More specifically,
Don't take whatever you've dealt with and shove it onto the next person who comes along; The people who ruined your day deserve your anger, not me.

She made her point just fine. Don't like it, don't read it.

and stop referring to yourself as Big bOOty white girl, you may attract a better class of callers. When you portray yourself as a piece of meat, you will get the low class hooker seekers and surely the vast majority of scum bags are calling from your BP ads and not TER, DC or P411.

Wait, what? Because a girl is on BP I get to shit-talk her over the phone? Tight.

Because I have talked with you over email, I have a better perspective than some other guys who many be responding from the position of being distant observer to your post.  

If you dont like the industry, there are other ways to make a living. If you come from a dysfunctional family, well too bad. I know very few people who grew up in a loving, well to do, healthy family. They dont bring it up to manipulate pitty from who is willing to listen.
If you have been misstreated I suggest you listen to a previous post about your advertising methods. Then again it may be you who gravitates to that type of low level client.

You know brother you are an idiot!!!!!

Keep up the good work, do your thing & don't care or worry about others, others seem to get unhappy when another does well for themselves, I myself can relate to your comment about "unrelating to others in this biz".   (There are a handful of ladies that I really respect & take advices from but other then that I keep to myself)  

If every provider who experienced that "rude" caller and posted here the volume would probably blow up TER servers.

To the OP -- my sympathies, it sounds like alot of crap has come your way.

She can market herself any way she pleases. It's not just because she's on BP, but look at her ads and tell me how many professional suits would be enticed by them. It's clearly obvious that the wording of her ads are attracting the low life bottom of the barrel "mongers".  

Well said. On point.

these A-holes act or speak this way to them?

Sorry, but I don't see anything in her ad that would compel me to write an email and ask her if she'd put her tongue up my ass, but maybe I somehow missed the part about how she wanted her face turned into a glazed doughnut - I'll reread. Does the term "big booty white girl" offend the sensibilities of the over 50 crowd or something? Structure and diction might matter to persnickety tricks, but I ain't exactly hiring them for their analytical abilities and linguistic talents.

I can really appreciate the way you have went out of your way to show me that you are not so retarded after all. You have passed the test.  

They can hear this at home

that I might be attracting clients from a certain level that I may not want to be attracting. I would like to review and compare adverts you feel attract a higher class clientele, but if you decide against providing an example, I would understand.  

She just happens to have an ad on the board today and is a good example of something short, sweet and to the point.  

is your ethnicity. Your pictures do a good job at letting us know.

there is a deeper price we pay mentally for engaging ourselves in this hobby & culture.

because she was white, there has always been another selling point.

I get that you're upset, but I am not going to pretend that I know what all this is all about.  

So let them know that all that hard earned cash they have is one thing, and what you have to offer is another. Set the terms and the conditions, and if they try to talk you to drop safety standards, discretionary boundaries, or the monetary return for your time and attention, dump the chumps.

Amber is a true genuine provider. Not sure what went wrong or why this discussion started but I am not getting into an argument about this.

in this case, he is actually 100% correct.  As another poster said, ghettoness attracts ghettoness, and "Big bOOty white girl" SCREAMS ghetto.

but this is one of the few posts he has made that I can also agree with. For once I feel he is actually trying to be helpful.

and for the record, Amber has a track record of being a bit combative where it comes to taking good advice, today seems to be a pleasant change of pace for her. so maybe there is hope for her yet. I wish I could say the same about you taking good advice when it's offered.

and yes there are many things about BV/Pimples/JCA, that if not exactly terrifying are at least downright disturbing.

I've read a few of your other posts, including your brief foray onto the P&R board where you also tried to alternately play the victim card and crow about your "personal growth" at the same time all the time being quite combative with anyone who disagreed with you.

This business is not for everybody, and maybe it's not for you. If business is great and no one likes you, you can chalk it up to jealousy, but if your phone is not ringing, or the wrong people are calling, maybe a look inward is in order. You've been offered some very good advice in this thread. I would suggest listening to some of it.