I've tried searches but never seem to find the right fit.  In DC or NOVA, I'd like to find a submissive provider who enjoys some physical/rough play.  Nothing too extreme.  Spanking, hair pulling, choking, and a little face slapping.  I am NOT talking about anything that is more than mildly painful.  If you are into Greek even better.  You can respond here or PM me.  Thanks.

No I am not even going to bother the answer is right in front of your face

I am not sure why you would not be willing to answer the question and I would be interested in the same response as well.   Any ladies care to post?

Now, I do understand that it is a fetish for some people. It isn't mine but I understand it. Yet who knows what kind of a distorted psycho the OPs? He could indeed be a gentlemen who simply likes a little rough play while completely honoring and respecting the ladies boundaries, or he could be a serious rough playing bastard treating girls like a piece of meat yet disguising as a gentlemen. Some ladies do engage in rough play but they would only engage in such act after getting to know the client a lot better.

Funny thing is with some girls I have seen, they are the ones getting rough on me not the other way around. I don't really find it fun dick slapping a girl, but one time I thought my dick was about to break off because the lady slapped it on her face so damn hard... all on her own. There were others who did rough things I wouldn't/can't write on public boards and have told me not to tell they do such things. lol. :P

I like a man who know how to enjoy himself.  I enjoy variety as well.

Do a search. Make sure you specify s&m available. You will have to read the reviews to see if they are submissive versus dominate. I am like you I like to tie the ladies on the bed and fuck them in the ass sometimes. Alot of if its ymmv and chemistry. If you had some reviews posted people might be more comfortable in giving you some recommendations. Many times I bring my toys and I find that some will and some won't. Many tell me "Your stuff looks professional' that is why I trust you. It also helps if you have references and reviews. I don't expect to get this for 1 hour appointments because it takes too long to clean up/packup and set the stuff up.