No offense, but my favorite subbie ( current housemate ) would probably be a bit of a challenge.....

for you lol

I like an s/m bottom with some *spunk* - who likes to make it a bit of a challenge at times and at others is sweetly submissive and craves her discipline....  

the new enthusiasm is decidedly dominant with other women for the most part '

and have brought provider friends along - some to watch and wank, others to play. I've met providers there as well.

However I realize that maintaining discretion when involved in two "underground" but intersecting lives is a serious issue....

Who knows - we may have "met" at the Crucible or at a Black Rose function and not even known it lol....