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prince-of-tides 10 Reviews 539 reads
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To begin... This is not the first time I've heard this concern...
By definition, it seems as if your defined full hour should include as many pops as you can squeeze in and I think I understand your goal.  
And...Your time management of your 60 minutes involves a planned 1st pop at 5 minutes and the second pop 15 minutes later...and time to squeeze more in if the planets align.  
This leads me to wonder about whether you see GFE providers. If so, the GFExperiences I savor places equal signs between me and her.  
In short and in my unrushed ' play book'...I shower, flirt and LDL/DFK, chatting and relaxing and beginning to enjoy each other, foreplay, DATY/69, BBBJ...before the first main event exceeds you.  
The time it takes me to assure we are both comfortable is much different than your '5 minutes' till launch.  
It's simply an observation...compare/contrast if you will.  
By your timeline I would be way, way 'behind schedule'.  
I am not saying I feel you are right or wrong but I'm saying your timeline should be understood before your session so the provider has anticipatory guidance.  

Curly W (the promiscuous Nationals fan) has learned you have a proclivity to BP providers so thats a variable for those of us who have other sources if referral (Eros, TER, p411). Additionally your reviews are from NY-NJ. Another variable.  
That also raise the other issue of the generosity of donations you expect to provide for a 3 times an hour provider.  

I have never ever had your dilemma, I must say.  
But I never want to have less than two hours to meet, engage and thoroughly enjoy the ladies that I desire to see.
The final variable!

Try longer sessions, with GFE providers.  
Bring your A game, ask for more than an hour's appointment, and enjoy the results!
Of equal importance...leave your stopwatch at home.  

 



-- Modified on 3/24/2014 5:44:03 PM

have a question for you guys. what is the standard mo on wanting to experience the full hour. i have had providers tell me that it is going to be almost double because i want to go 2-3 times, what is the best way to address this? is that the standard? some people cant last i dont think they should they be penalized for it.  
providers if you see this what is the best way for a hobbyist to express this issue to you? phone email before session or dont even bother?

thanks

adventurer2011877 reads

In my opinion there is no standard. Some providers allow as many times as you can during the hour. Of course they know most clients don't go over 2 or at least providers don't expect that.
The best way is if it is the first time with a certain provider, schedule for the time you need for one pop, then you can ask her how many pops are allow within the hour. Or the other an probably best way is to schedule for the shortest time and give her the sense you may book for longer upon arrival. When you arrive ask her in an indirect way how many pops would be allow during the hour. If the shortest amount of time offered is 1 hour then you need to take your chances as some providers don't like to discuss that over the phone or by email unless you are well verified.
I actually like second cups if scheduling for an hour and don't repeat if only one is offered.
I'm not an expert on this but I'm just sharing my thoughts.

By the way can anyone recommend any providers that allow second rounds??

Thank

You want to go 2-3 times in one hour and that providers are telling you it may cost you double or triple their rate?

If that is how I am understanding your statement, then you are being discouraged, and being told to change your expectations.  

Dude... Making a guy pop 2-3 times is not only lot of work, but can also cause lot of soreness, especially when trying to jam it in a hour. I don't think I have ever popped 3 times in an hour - even in my 20s.  

If you want to pop 2-3 times, I would say the best thing is book longer appointments. May be 3-4 hours at least.

adventurer2011882 reads

Or for the whole night or day!

i hear that. but understand that if hypothetically, the first pop takes less than 5 minutes and the second time will be within the next 15 that leaves 40 minutes(if were saying a standard one hour session) its true its a lot of work but dont see why it would be different than not popping and going for almost an hr straight...

You pop in first 5 minutes? Is that a PE issue or you are some kind of a beast... Good lord.. Get a sex doll.  

Not many women will take kindly to you ramming your cock down their throat or jamming it in their vagina in the first 5 min of arriving...

wrps07702 reads

He must be doing pile driver position.  If she can throw that ass back and squeeze he probably pops.

Some of the younger bp providers want to get into second round right away. I tell I need at least 5 to 10 minutes between pops. Sometimes they will see me with another boner and be shocked I am ready to go again.

And I  just saw that 2 of his providers out of 5 are BP, so he has some experience with higher end providers - at least.

wrps07641 reads

Many high providers are not going to go for 2 pops in a hour. They prefer that you book at least a 1.5 hour appointment. If he wants multiple pop he needs to keep to porn stars, young providers and or providers on bp. One bp provider who was in her 30s told me she won't let a guy get more than one pop an hour. She wanted to be in a more loving romantic session.  

I will be honest I did not start doing a 2 pops per hour session until 2011. It just happened.  The provider was a horny bp porn star. I was like wow didn't know I could do that.  

-- Modified on 3/24/2014 4:50:06 PM

yea i guess you could say it is kind of a pe issue....

wrps07512 reads

You could use some lube. Some of these ladies are very tight and have very good kagel control. Try putting extra lube, but not to much because you could ending fucking so long the lady complains. Sometimes it is the moaning and noise they make or the fact their pussy gets wet that could cause you to be excited. Slow down the strokes some and not go fast like a grey hound dog.

wrps07597 reads

It can be done if the provider is hot and into 2 pops in 1 hour. I have done 3 pops in 1.5 hours only 2 times.  Also best to take at least 3 day break from having sex. The guy has to be in good shape. Also best time is first thing in morning before you go to work well rested up. I do lots of cardio and weights.

JustLayingLow651 reads

pops in an hour as I can produce, and who do so for their standard hourly rate.  I usually pop twice, and when the session has been hot enough, have had triples ...  If her reviews don't indicate the answer, simply ask after screening but before setting the appt.  Be courteous, and make sure you are out the door in under 60 minutes.  
 

Posted By: Thebud333
have a question for you guys. what is the standard mo on wanting to experience the full hour. i have had providers tell me that it is going to be almost double because i want to go 2-3 times, what is the best way to address this? is that the standard? some people cant last i dont think they should they be penalized for it.  
 providers if you see this what is the best way for a hobbyist to express this issue to you? phone email before session or dont even bother?  
   
 thanks

...when i first got in the game I was kinda taken aback that ladies equated the number of pops you had in an hour with more money.  But of course it has some validity.  Making a dude pop does take some work.  And if i'm any example, making me pop twice in hour I will have the lovely working her ass off.  So, if she was successful making me pop twice in an hour I would not feel right not paying her more than her normal hour rate.

I'm 53, in good shape (swim every other day and can even still play in a Basketball league).  But this has not translated into me popping like I could in my 20's...shyt I could put a hole in the ceiling on back-toback pops.  I guess father time has a say in this kinda shyt.  NOTE: With that said I can pop twice in 45 mins with some good porn....go figure that shyt.

In any event....a lady asking for more for MSOG in an hour makes sense.  There are those who advertise that as a perk...you can pop as many times as you can in our allotted time.  Seek out those ladies

To begin... This is not the first time I've heard this concern...
By definition, it seems as if your defined full hour should include as many pops as you can squeeze in and I think I understand your goal.  
And...Your time management of your 60 minutes involves a planned 1st pop at 5 minutes and the second pop 15 minutes later...and time to squeeze more in if the planets align.  
This leads me to wonder about whether you see GFE providers. If so, the GFExperiences I savor places equal signs between me and her.  
In short and in my unrushed ' play book'...I shower, flirt and LDL/DFK, chatting and relaxing and beginning to enjoy each other, foreplay, DATY/69, BBBJ...before the first main event exceeds you.  
The time it takes me to assure we are both comfortable is much different than your '5 minutes' till launch.  
It's simply an observation...compare/contrast if you will.  
By your timeline I would be way, way 'behind schedule'.  
I am not saying I feel you are right or wrong but I'm saying your timeline should be understood before your session so the provider has anticipatory guidance.  

Curly W (the promiscuous Nationals fan) has learned you have a proclivity to BP providers so thats a variable for those of us who have other sources if referral (Eros, TER, p411). Additionally your reviews are from NY-NJ. Another variable.  
That also raise the other issue of the generosity of donations you expect to provide for a 3 times an hour provider.  

I have never ever had your dilemma, I must say.  
But I never want to have less than two hours to meet, engage and thoroughly enjoy the ladies that I desire to see.
The final variable!

Try longer sessions, with GFE providers.  
Bring your A game, ask for more than an hour's appointment, and enjoy the results!
Of equal importance...leave your stopwatch at home.  

 



-- Modified on 3/24/2014 5:44:03 PM

And he also was sensitive.

 
We got him to pop 6 times during the hour, and I didn't just go at it mechanically, there was edging and teasing and denial and sensation play.

 
If you don't explain up front that you are a minute man, they will assume that you are just trying to get the most bang (lol) for your buck. (I'm still chuckling)
The best advice I can give you is to take 40 or 60 extra, dont tell her you are looking to pop multies, after the first (Assuming you arent hounding BP) ask if you can spend the rest of the hour just being played with  and leave the tip saying you appreciate the attention.  

It'll play out that you didn't have to friggin pay triple, you got yer pops, and she is left feeling compensated for the "extra" effort.

 

I'd enjoy hearing any opinions on my proffered proposal.

wrps07754 reads

Wow 6 pops. Never heard of that. Incredible must be a wonder of the world, lol.

I like the way you think Ambar..let me know when you are in Tyson's or Dulles.

And just hearing my voice, she came 4 times, and another 2 times by the time I reached her incall....

When she saw me, she came for the 7th and 8th time, and fainted. I guess it was a bit too much for her.... :D

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
And just hearing my voice, she came 4 times, and another 2 times by the time I reached her incall....  
   
 When she saw me, she came for the 7th and 8th time, and fainted. I guess it was a bit too much for her.... :D
 I came reading this, then again while posting this. ;-)

..... more often than not tho if I see someone upcharge for MSOG it's a non-GFE provider.

An hour is plenty of time for a gent to see fireworks twice in my opinion. Many times clients will book longer so that they have more time in between to rest and play but everyone's different.  Usually guys when they are with me will tell me or make a hint that they pop fast the first time and then like to go a second time. Some will say they are one and done. Everyone is different so to make sure everyone's happy, one really should speak up.  

 But in my eyes it is always worth a try. It can't hurt right?! ;-)  Now if a person takes a really long time to get off then they should book a longer session. Especially if they want to pop twice. I did see a guy that wanted 5-6 times and he had only booked an hour. This was years ago and it was an experience let me tell you. Lol. ;-)

but the amount of time it takes for you to get drained, whether it be an hour or two, I can't make that call off of a first appointment. Do your research, schedule accordingly, make sure your expectations are discreetly known and have fun! If you are not satisfied, move on. There are enough ladies willing to deliver exactly what you want.

I've never had any trouble with getting hard again with only a brief rest, but others may be different.  For that matter, I recognize that I might have a different answer in ten years, so take that for whatever it's worth.  :)

Be aware of the time, and also be able to communicate in a considerate manner.  Nobody wants to be in the situation of saying, "Um, honey, we're 53 minutes into your one-hour appointment, I don't think another round is in the cards".  If you know that your first round is often brisk, let her know somehow -- I have had good luck with something like "I can often get pretty excited right out of the gate, but after that, I'm ready to be more deliberate".  Don't be afraid to make allusions, although you shouldn't say baldly "I pop my first load if the wind blows just right, and expect you to give me every possible moment in my hour".  Recognize that it's unlikely she will respond well to explicit questions until she knows you.

If you do go longer than usual on the first round, that's cool, but don't take it out on her.  Ask if an extension to 90 minutes is possible; while time pressure can sometimes be an issue even with the best, most ladies will work with you if they can swing it.  Be prepared to compensate for extra time -- do NOT expect it as an entitlement.  Sometimes you get some extra time to make things happen out of the goodness of her heart, which is awesome.  You never know.

If getting that second pop is your principal goal, make sure you arrange the session accordingly.  Don't let her spend 20 minutes licking your balls and then whine that "my hour was rushed".  If that second pop is what really turns your crank (much like me, I might add), she can't read your mind to know.  Either make it obvious by moving things along briskly at first (or TELLING HER THAT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU), or book something more than an hour.

I don't deflate when I first pop no matter how long it is prolonged unless it's a handjob in which i'm sensitive and can't push through....but with having sex I can keep going without super sensitivity. If i'm horny i'm horny....only reason I jack-off in the morning before hand is to prolong the first pop which can backfire and I last too long first pop, hahaha.  

then again i'm in my late 20's and popping usually does not equal deflate....it means i'm having a good time. Hence, the beauty of real-life significant still trumps the hobby in the fact you can keep going as a condom ain't in use and no need to take a break unless physically tired

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