Just a caution for clients (and providers) - there's a reason many keep it strictly business and I'm still waiting to see how I'll ultimately pay for my lesson for ignoring that approach. I met and got to know a younger provider (24 yrs. old. She responds to personals but does not post). Saw her twice over a period of a few weeks and got to know her. Unfortunately, that also meant she got to know me. The real me. We were friends on a couple of social sites, etc.

all in all, given my experience in the hobby its very rare. I've never had this kind of stuff happen to me  in all these years.  She going to her mother....Really?  

This type of shit can heppen when you deal with this lifestyle. Nothing is promised or guarenteed that you wont get into some stupid shit if you let yourself

you poor darling

That's terrible. I'm sorry that happened to you. What rotten circumstances. But your heart was in the right place. It sounds like you were very kind to someone who needed it.  

If you are in the hobby client or provider you should not be using social media sites such as facebook.

This hobby can go both ways.  I had a lady friend that one of her clients she was close too, called and sent e-mails to her family when the relationship went south.  Lucky for her the damage was minimal.  Both sides need to be careful who the share their personnel info with. Wish everyone a "drama-free" week and enjoy the great weather :

Social media, um... yeah.. I would definitely stay off of that site for many reasons. If people scrutinize you in your workplace or if you have a jealous ex, then you'll want to stay off of ALL social media sites that have your real identity. We've all had a lot to drink and sometimes we don't mean it but for it to be fun, but if you take a picture of your butthole while holding a beer and upload that in Facebook, then well, yeah, you know the result if you work in a place that scrutinizes you.

Sucks that you had to go thru all of that. It's best to remember both of your common interest, and personalize the experience. Make the best of that time. I myself have had a special friend or even girlfriends who I believed to have gotten to know, but turns out not at all. It's nice to be able to get to know each other, but it's just so broad and time will tell. You can physically know someone for years and still not know them.  

Maybe as means to remember a client . Emails, texts etc.

Your don't cross worlds unless you both truly want to comment is spot on. But if you do, what are the rules and when they get unilaterally changed, difficult rhetorical question is how do things proceed. And if they get changed then yet again, then what. (Rhetorical question).   And if significant amount of money has been "invested" in relationship, how's that play. And if money is "borrowed" without terms, then what. All that said, with some exceptions, including your comments, most of the board discussion is false, not all, but a lot. Most people know that.  Ladies want their white knights to knock it down, as if guys like me really get on here much. And, then if they don't, some get accused of actually being the source of the posts, even though not the case and no proof (and mods know, I think, who arguably is with ISP tracing - albeit not a science with Verizons and others of the world) know). And on rules being changed, how do you deal with. More later maybe.  Been mostly quet to now but perhaps reasons to change that now.

Yes they are expensive but a key sign that something else is going on is a provider having trouble paying her rent, utilities and her cell bills. Maybe she doesn't have any extra money but all these things should at least be covered, even if times are slow.

You need to subscribe to the poet Snoop Dogg....

Applies to many, not all. And certainly not the ladies I allow in -- or so I hope) and mostly trust. It's a smalll group, one. I'm either 100 percent right or wrong. No margin for error for me. I've gone from several, yrs ago to One in recent years. Although I've been wondering as of late due to some developments beyond my control, not giving up yet. Even though patience is not a virtue that get me admitted to many places its needed

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A similar thing happened to me several years ago. Met with a provider (who actually starred in porn movies) and had a great time. As part of the screening I gave her my workplace name and phone number. Not too long after our session she starts calling me at the office. I was a bit taken aback by this but being the dumbass that I was back then I would take the calls and chat with her for a bit.

As I mentioned in my earlier cooment (see my post in the beginning of this thread--it is absolutely a cautionary tale all clients should heed!!)--the ONLY information I will furnish is my P411 credentials and individual provider refs--that's IT! This is why P411 was created in the first place as a tool both hobbyist and provider can use. Anybody that wants more than that from me is NOT getting it! Thankfully P411 has a lot of credibility and it has up to now always been sufficient for screening purposes! I think it's an awesome service--it really protects you!!