After reading these threads. There are some good points from everybody.
In anybody's mind it is a natural reaction to think twice of  somebody if they have been with 500 people, "this is saying no matter who you are " provider" basketball player" hobbyist" movie star" now your reaction can either be bad or positive. But i will tell you the truth i defenitly looked twice when i saw close to 500.
MB's point is a good one.. don't ask and don't tell.
Hope everybody has a great and safe holiday season!!
Tanman