You had a trusted and reliable provider who flaked today, shit happens and there was no reason to have a Plan B.  I never, ever have one when on a repeat visit with a lady I trust.

I would suggest this much, and I know it involves accepting that you got walked all over today.  

You already enjoyed her company enough to have booked her a 3rd time, and she us offering you the equivalent of make-up-sex which is the gold standard.  Hell, if your not smart enough to take it then ask her is you can transfer it to someone else and send me a PM.  I don't even know who the hell she is and I would take it

If she left you hanging in there for 15-20 min. after the appointment time passed, then I wouldn't blame you for calling it off. I don't mind providers running late, since I typically do outcall, but I like when they keep in touch via text or phone call.

If its a situation where you were at an incall, then just hanging around nervously doesn't excite me and can get some weird looks from people around. Now if you have a car or there is a coffee house near by, it changes the equation..

There are too many variables to give a cookie-cutter answer.. It also depends on how badly you want to fuck her.. I mean you just want to fuck her... or FUCKKKKK her.. Get my point...

Remember back in 2003-2004,  DC-Robin used to rule the District...During her tyrannical regime, I have waited in my car for 1 hr 45 min. Of course at that time I was very young, and I was ecstatic that she answered my phone after 18 months of trying her off and on. I don't think I have that kind of patience anymore, even if it were Duchess of Cambridge providing

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My experience is that many providers are late.  It is something that seems to be pervasive in this subculture.  I don't know why.  There are a few providers that I see that always make me wait at least 5 minutes regardless if I'm on time or not.  I think they do it because lots of guys don't show so they don't get ready until the last minute.

I've waited up to an hour for a woman I only saw once and it wasn't worth it.  20 minutes late in the business world is pretty inexcusable but then again...well, 20 minutes is all I'll wait.

I hate it when a provider is disrespectful of my time.  A few minutes late, no big deal.  Maybe 10 minutes or so, depending on my schedule for the rest of the day.  Any more than that and it really bothers me.  There are a couple of ladies who I really liked but will never see again because they were late.  I'm the kind of person who is early for everything, and I've spent a lot of time in hotel bars or in my car waiting because I'm early for an appointment and I don't want to be "that guy" who shows up too early for the party!

After 20 minutes you are basically "Plan B" for many providers.  Take that $300 put of your pocket and give it a kiss.  You now have been saved a bad appointment.  Now look for someone who will appreciate your hard earned money and who will not blow you off.  

Hands

When I arrive at the location, I call first and leave a voice message, no response after 10min then I text. My phone does not ring at times but gets texts and voice messages, so I understand.  If I don't get a response at 30 min mark, I drive on.  If she does call back and says shes running late, I usually wait it out.  

I did have a lady call to reschedule for the following day, then on that day as I was leaving the house she called to move it back an hour.  Arrived at location and..............yep she called again to let me know that she was running late.  90mins later I was at her door and yes it was worth the wait.  Would I do it again?  If I have the time, sure.  LOL!

then it affects a providers schedule. she might not have meant any insult or she might have been dealing with personal matters. NOT THAT THIS JUSTIFIES THE LACK OF PROFESSIONALISM but there's a side to everyone's story.

hopefully she will reach out and make it right. if she offered discount she is obviously aware of her wrong doing. give her a second chance!