I've been to Indyfriends 3 or 4 times (Love Jenna!) and I once emailed Lindsay about these parties. I never got a response and I don't want to bug her. Any suggestions?
Obviously I don't speak for Lindsey, but I can guess that you have helped your chances by slamming Autumn in your review of her. I have met Autumn (I have not had a session with her yet), and I felt your comments were a bit over the top and cruel. I can imagine what she felt.
Yes, it is important to be honest in our reviews, in no way am I suggesting that if you did not enjoy your experience that you should feel like you have to lie and say you did; however, there is a line between being honest, about not have the experience you expected, and just being mean about someone's size. I am sure there are a lot of guys out there that would find Autumn attractive. I perhaps might be one of them.
If you want to be cruel in your reviews, that is also your right; however, you can expect special treatment for an agency afterward.
lol . This will be a good one.
This is going to be pretty comical.
Because usually Autumn answer's the phones lately.
I think the rating ok if your drunk is extremly harsh. "but to each his own"
I would allmost have to say that most of the people on this board have met Autumn and would probably agree that its a little extreme..
Please let us know how things go though.
-- Modified on 3/24/2006 6:18:44 AM
Wow, I'm catching a lot of heat for this one. Let's go over the review. I thought her appearance was a "4". Last time I checked I was entitled to my opinon. I would never say "OK-if you're drunk". That comes automatically attached to the rating. Blame TER if it seems too harsh. I gave the session a "6" and did have a nice time. I praised Indyfriends, I said she had a pretty face and nice hair, I praised her bedroom skills, I said I liked her personality. I had a problem with her weight but recommended her if that wasn't such a big deal to you. I would haven't made such issue of her weight but let's take a reality check. She doesn't look like her pictures anymore and it is a little unfair not to update them. If her pictures were more accurate or if someone gave a review like mine and didn't sugar-coat it, I wouldn't have picked her. I do care about that and I'm sure I'm not alone. The purpose of TER isn't to make providers like you, it's to give "honest" subjective reviews for fellow hobbyists.
The point is moot anyway, we haven't had one go through since November and I'm pretty sure I'm just going to stop doing them all together at this point. Too much planning and effort and then half the people cancel the day before.
LBL, I have no idea of knowing who this guy is by his TER handle, unless it's the same as the email address. I think his review was beyond harsh but that's not the reason he wouldn't have gotten a response. More likely it went into my junk folder which is why I created the bigstring account. Too much was going into junk!
I guess if the guys wanted to party all they would have to do is the front work of getting enough guys together to make it happen. It isn't easy scheduling those type of events - I know.. That's why I resigned as the Happy Hour planner -LOL..
And yes - while he complimented her in many ways - a 4 was too much. There is something about contacting a few who went before to ask the details he apparently felt weren't in the reviews - guess he might consider that the next time - or maybe not..
Kiss all the girls for me - tell them I'll treat to drinks and eats anytime they want - of course it will be just me as I can't manage all the other call outs anymore - LOL...
CYA Sweetie
One of the few Fridays I actually don't hae to get home. Call me, you have my number!
...even without having had their egos crushed by an accidental glace at Little Lex.
I just can't risk it.
Im glad to see an honest review on here from time to time. Either some guys are just getting kickbacks for good reviews, or for some reson im not experiencing some of the same good times.
OK- Here's my 2nd reply and my first one hasn't been approved yet. And yes- I have been stewing over this quite a bit..
A couple of quick diect responses to some of the posts:
1) It was ballsy of me to ask this question after the Autumn review. But you've got to understand, I've been there a few times and each time the girls told me about these parties. They sound like Roman Orgies! I would definitely risk being bitched out to get into one of those(I don't think anyone knows me from my TER name). Now we all know they aren't happening anymore. And Kudos to Lindsay for creating something like that in the first place. She deserves a Nobel Peace Prize or something just for offering one of those to the general public.
2) I wasn't even aware of this email option until I received a couple of them today. I'll definitely use it for now on to peel back the onion a bit more.
3) I checked and everyone who criticized me has never reviewed Autumn. Either you have never been with her and you don't know what you are talking about or you have been with her and for some reason didn't want to post anything. Why would that be?
4) I gave Jenna from Indyfriends an "8" because I thought she was an "8". I gave Autumn a "4" because I thought she was a "4". Should I have lied and given her a "6" to be nice? Sounds like there is too much of that going on already.
5) Finally, this whole "mean" thing. I have always been extremely respectful to every provider I have seen. I went out of my way to praise her in every way but her weight. And the terms I used to describe her body have been used by other reviewers as well. They just gave her higher grades. They didn't care about it as much as me. THAT IS WHY I DID RECOMMEND HER TO PEOPLE WHO DON'T CARE SO MUCH ABOUT THAT.
Well I'm gone. You won't have "Rightwinger" to kick around anymore. Back to the porn and vasoline for me. The pornstars don't yell at me when I fast-forward over their scene. Peace out!
While Autumn is disappointed, she has a great sense of humor. She's considering enhancing her photo's to show her bigger then she actually is then when guys come see her they can compliment her on weight loss...
Your point of view and appraisal, while not consistent with others, is how you felt. Others have differing tastes and show it with their reviews. I doubt Autumn will lose business or sleep over this as most will look at it objectively and one person's opinion isn't enough to make a choice from - at least not for me.
Some of us have seen her in person on a social occasion which may explain why they have no reviews of her - such as me. Your performance review was very accurate and complimented her. So, I hope you're not thin so skinned that our open discussion and opinions would get to you. Please tell me you are not backing away from post's and review over a difference of opinions posted here.
I'm glad to see there is one thing you took from this experience - contact others for greater details it will save you a lot of trouble in most cases.
A final Note - change from using a petroleum distillate as a means to lubricate the tool - LOL - that stuff isn't good for you...
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TER may want to modify what their numbers stand for. I mean you could write a fair and sensitive review and just leave the number 4 in there and it might be ok, but the "ok if your drunk" attached to the 4 really is sort of insulting, and that's sort of TERs responsibility. And not to mention #3 as "homely". You could write a fairly ok review for the girl but she won't forget the "homely". I don't think I'd give anyone a 2,3 or 4 for looks especially if they're trying, mainly because of the descriptions associated with the numbers. I would however state in the description that I was generous with the ratings and explain clearly what the problems were (maybe this was done, only have basic membership). I would keep in mind that the girl could read it the next day, not only guys read this, you know the girls look at this stuff. TER could change the descriptions of these numbers since I think they really hurt the girls feelings. for example 3 could be "not so great". I also took a look at the pic and Autumn looks pretty good to me.
But it's not likely that TER will. We all know verbal abuse is almost as harmful as physical, if not more for some people. When I saw his review on face value it made me cringe and wonder what was thing guy thinking for even being there. But after reading it I got a different impression and felt for the most part his had posted a reasonable and complimentarty review. You're right, what the difference is - the numbers, the verbal abusive words, don't seem to match or fit the rule..
I'm sorry to hear that Lindsay won't be hosting any more parties. Perhaps after a while she'll reconsider particularly if she gets some logistical assistance from slpry and some of the other partiers. I had the pleasure of attending three. As for rightwinger's review of Autumn. I've met Autumn and found her to be friendly and accomodating. Sure she is voluptuous and you couldn't have been unaware of that fact unless YOU WERE DRUNK! You gave her a decent rating for performance. Why did you choose her if you didn't like her appearance?
I've grown tired of making events happen. I'd rather do a more intimate event where I'm the only guy amongst all the girls...
I'm sure she would reconsider if 6 or more guys got together and committed to a party. So, if you have at least 5 friends or more who are interested in this type of event - drop her a line - not me, unless you're group sponsors my entry fee - LOL...
-- Modified on 3/25/2006 8:03:06 AM
No I'm not going to stop posting. I was just joking(not about the porn though). One last note and then this issue is officially dead. I focused so hard on Autumn's weight in my original review for two reasons:
1) She was/is much heavier than the pics on the websight. I would not have chosen her if she had accurate pics. I don't think it is fair to use out of date pics. I made an appointment with the girl from the websight, not the girl who opened the door.
2) Almost every other reviewer mentioned that she was heavier than her pics. So it's not just my imagination. I just assumed it was a few LBS. IMHO, it was a lot more than a few LBS. I wanted to give other hobbyist a fair warning. That is why we post these reviews. Not to make friends and get kick backs.
But I have one thing to add about the pictures. Autumn's pictures are not out of date, they were taken back in November at our apartment in Odenton. Nor were they retouched. All ladies use the pics that show them in the most flattering pose, this is no exception. You read the reviews saying she was heavier than her pics and you decided to see her anyway. Giving her a 4 for looks was the equivalent to a slap in the face.
And you keep mentioning kickbacks. I hope that you are not inferring that I give kickbacks. Because if I did my ladies would have a hell of a lot more reviews than they do!
Now go find yourself someone that shows herself in the worst possible pose and still looks like a Playboy bunny and go play. And don't forget to write a review.....
Pal, I guess you have to chalk this up to what "floats your boat." However, there is no need to be rude or condesending. I saw Autumn and we had a great time. I knew going in that she had children -- I did not find that a turn off in any way. Autumn is one of the best kissers I know. I love kissing as a perfect segue to French...you get the drill.
If you are looking for a rail-thin 18-year-old, you may not understand what "intercourse" is really about.
OKI