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NatsSkinsFan#1 577 reads
posted
1 / 11

I think that one of the reasons that I too click with older providers, late 20s to mid 30s for me is because there is lot to talk about. They have more life experience, and you can connect with them at different levels.

I'm in my early 30s and been doing this since my 20s.

I've been with providers all races, shapes, sizes and ages, and prefer English speaking providers in 25-35 range

turkeytalk 1548 reads
posted
2 / 11

I just saw another young provider in her early 20s that was disappointing despite some early rave reviews.  I'm a hobbyist who has been in the game for a while but now I'm over 2.5 times as old as providers in their early 20s.  My sense is that younger providers are inexperience and more likely to be YMMV.  If they like you and there's chemistry, it will be a great session but if they don't for whatever reason, get ready to be disappointed.  The problem for hobbyists is that you don't know whether they will like you until it is too late.  On the one hand, it is understandable because young pretty girls like to be with young good looking guys and it is not their preference to be with older out of shape average looking at best guys.  Older experienced providers in their 30s and above (or even late 20s) who get rave reviews tend to much more consistent and treat all clean respectful gentlemen like kings and try to make sure that you walk out the door a happy man.  I have rarely been disappointed with experienced highly rated providers but it has been hit and miss with these younger providers.   Live and learn.  I say these things to myself but when I see a new very pretty young new thing with a hot body, I sometimes let the little head take over.

blowjobbecky See my TER Reviews 1486 reads
posted
3 / 11

aww im sorry you had to go through that sweetie.but im in my early 20's and most if not all of my clients are older gentlemen.they can all tell you,i treat my men like kings.I feel that as a provider im not there to judge you on your looks or age.im here to show you a good time and leave you feeling very special.im glad you found more comfort in older providers,in which i understand because they tend to be more mature and respectable.however dont give up on young providers just yet.especially me lol. enjoy your weekend sweetie.
www.psebjbecky.com

nitlion4 30 Reviews 735 reads
posted
4 / 11



...you let the little head take over!  Silly you ;-)

Actually, your observation applies in other walks of life, too.  I observe that the younger the worker, the less  are the commitment and sense of responsibility to do the job, whatever it is, the very best you can do it every time.  The hobby just makes that point much more personal.  Good luck and happy hobbying.

NatsSkinsFan#1 812 reads
posted
5 / 11

in a nice way of course. Would love to meet you some day.

808transplant 45 Reviews 840 reads
posted
6 / 11

First, I understand what you are saying here. I have had mixed results with young providers. The problem is not that they want to be with young good looking studs but that they have simply not learned the business yet. Simple things like returning kisses instead of just accepting them, letting the guy take the lead or taking the lead if the guy is shy or passive.

I recently had two out of this world experiences with young providers as well as two others that I would have rather stayed home and watched a Simpsons rerun. The difference is that the girls that I had a great time with and returned to see, both thuroughly enjoyed sex. They let me lead and were at ease with trying something new. Heaven forbid that we we do the same routine of Greeting, LFK, DATY, BBBJ, 69, CG, K9 and good bye. I always try to do something new when I am hobbying.

Young immature girls start to giggle when I try something they have never seen before, something as simple as sucking random toes or getting arousal from the femenine smell of an armpit. Also many of the young and immature providers actually think that all we want to do is get our cock sucked, and do some doggie position, bust a nut and leave. Although there is some truth to that there is alot more that they are overlooking. The first factor ahead of age for me is that the provider actually enjoys sex. If she does then the I am 90% certain that she will get at least an 8 for performance.

Boricualover 225 Reviews 400 reads
posted
7 / 11

can be a red flag, especially if the predominant rating is an 8 for looks or performance. That may mean the first reviewers didn't want to hurt the girl's feelings or lose favor with an agency. Those 8s probably could have been 7s or 6s.
Reading between the lines can reveal a lot. "You may have to take the lead with her" and "she will no doubt improve with more experience" can also mean "she wasn't a good actress, and being with me was not exactly what she really wanted to be doing."

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 811 reads
posted
8 / 11

.... in every session I have i'm not YMMV because if i'm not up to an appt and giving 100% I won't take it. I'm also a bit of a perfectionist.... I do something (doing something to someone rather) I like to best myself.... my biggest critic isn't a reviewer it's me. Maybe try to see someone who has a page or more of consistent and recent reviews ..... the more consistent they are I would like to think increases the chances of you having a great time to be a sure thing regardless of her age. I wish you the best. :)

Posted By: turkeytalk
I just saw another young provider in her early 20s that was disappointing despite some early rave reviews.  I'm a hobbyist who has been in the game for a while but now I'm over 2.5 times as old as providers in their early 20s.  My sense is that younger providers are inexperience and more likely to be YMMV.  If they like you and there's chemistry, it will be a great session but if they don't for whatever reason, get ready to be disappointed.  The problem for hobbyists is that you don't know whether they will like you until it is too late.  On the one hand, it is understandable because young pretty girls like to be with young good looking guys and it is not their preference to be with older out of shape average looking at best guys.  Older experienced providers in their 30s and above (or even late 20s) who get rave reviews tend to much more consistent and treat all clean respectful gentlemen like kings and try to make sure that you walk out the door a happy man.  I have rarely been disappointed with experienced highly rated providers but it has been hit and miss with these younger providers.   Live and learn.  I say these things to myself but when I see a new very pretty young new thing with a hot body, I sometimes let the little head take over.

Captain Midnight 35 Reviews 555 reads
posted
9 / 11

I've had some experience with younger providers, and they've been much like other ladies -- some provide good sessions, and some don't.  They do seem to respond well to being treated with respect, much like most other people.

Yes, some are just looking at you as a walking envelope, and I dare say that more of the younger ones do that.  However, I've been able to look at reviews and how a lady presents herself in her ads and website, and mostly avoid the really awful ones.  My best experience ever was with a young lady who was a few months short of 21, and she still provided an amazing experience.  I try to be respectful and considerate, and it seems to get good results; I have certainly had some mediocre encounters, but that happens with providers of any age.

I have had mixed results with providers who don't have an established track record.  That has little to do with how old they are, but it has a lot more to do with them being known quantities.  Sometimes, if I TOFTT it works out awesome; other times, not so much.  I'm not as old as some guys, and I'm not hard to look at, so maybe that has something to do with my results... but maybe I'm just fishing where the fish are.

Watch-A-Crotch 1017 reads
posted
10 / 11

. . . there may be other factors involved, such as attrition.

Young providers are trying out for this business and if they can't deal with older guys they'd be gone.

turkeytalk 705 reads
posted
11 / 11

I've been a hobbyist for over 8 years so I've had some wonderful performances from providers in the 19-23 age range but I was just commenting that it is very hit and miss when you see a new young provider even those with early rave reviews.  Usually after I've had a disappointing session, I start to see more and more mixed reviews after the fact (YMMV).  It may be the case that the guys who had a good time are more willing and quick to post a review than those who don't have a good time and the early reviews may be fake.  I would agree that some new young providers are very good but finding the right ones can be a challenge and I think they are the exception rather than the rule.  I find the more experienced providers in their 30s (and this includes girls who say they are in their late 20s) with good reviews more able to provide consistently good performances for clean respectful gentlemen.  Or better advice probably is to see more mature escorts who have been in the business for a while and know how to please a man (and that means every client not just the ones she likes).  If you only hobby once a month like me, you can't afford to have a bad time because that is it for the month and it will linger in your mind!

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