DC and visiting providers: though I am sure ALL of your hobbyist friends are your favorites...if you DID have a favorite, what would be the things he could do during your time together to be the friend you like spending time with more than any other?

small dick
prompt and on time
clean
circumsized
friendly/non violent/not aggressive
clean fingernails and toenails
clean hands, washes hands upon arrival
quick pop no seconds - one and done
one position
likes pineapples
doesn't go over time
fresh breath/floss and brush
dresses nicely
courteous
doesn't cancel
if cancels leaves a small addition donation next time
doesn't stay over time
big tipper
over inflated reviews
small dick


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I've had asian stalkers, attempted bb, underpaid & haggled, boring convos.

So far, only Cuisiner has been an asian client who I super enjoy spending time with.

 
Also, wow.

Telling me I taste good, he loves my ass, my tits, moaning when I touch him. This makes me feel sexy and I love it.

What would be the things he could do during your time together to be the friend you like spending time with more than any other?
- I want to hear his pleasure.  Words aren't necessary.  Audible breathing is alluring.  
- He can come with ideas.  I don't mind leading if it's in my wheelhouse or following if it's something new.
- He shouldn't be afraid to offer me some direction.  I love to please and knowing how he likes his keys stroked.
- He should enjoy bjs.

T'was a bit of humor mixed in with the P411/Websites of providers of likes and dislikes.

If asians are such a problem except for one, maybe the AA label should also include Asian Americans.

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So anyone that does that starts off very high in my book. But some of my favorite clients are the ones that we spend some time together and we are really enjoying each other's company. We are laughing, conversing, clicking. Then there are clients that come in and it's hot passion and nothing more. All good experiences and situations. I just love what I do, I have soooo much fun. I am in the right profession.

I love this question! Emma and ThePrivateAssistant had great responses and I tend to agree.

Here are the attributes of my ideal hobbyist:

- Fastidiously clean and/or willing to shower with me
- Trimmed nails!
- Knows and can communicate what he likes
- Is as interested in me as I am in him, and is looking for a real connection as I am
- Is open to regular dates if the connection is there
- Is happy to give and take direction, dirty talk a plus!
- Verbally responsive (Emma said it perfectly- moaning, compliments make me feel soooo sexy)
- Not cynical, doesn't have hangups about sex, the hobby or providers
- Knows that squirt isn't urine, or is wiling to be convinced through demonstration
- Is open minded and adventurous
- Not *too* endowed, or is willing to go slow! (even in civilian life, I've never been a size queen!)
- Is respectful of my boundaries, both physical and otherwise- I pride myself on being accommodating, but I do have boundaries!
- Doesn't try to haggle or negotiate
- Is able to book 1-2 weeks ahead, and keeps his appointments
- Doesn't try to manipulate in order to extend his meeting time
- It doesn't matter what he looks like or how old he is, I've never been superficial and I have a broad range of what I find attractive. Chemistry transcends mere appearances!
EDITED TO ADD ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT ATTRIBUTES!:
- Is educated about sexual health, cares about his own sexual health, gets tested regularly, and never would ever even consider BBFS with a provider!

Phew, that's a long list! And I'm sure I've missed plenty. I realize I use "he", but it's only for simplicity's sake, the same applies to hobbyists of all genders.

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I already decline meeting illiterate or incoherent folk

That has a client that fits your criteria !!

Love it Inari, especially about squirting.

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hehe...

D:

And if you do, I hope that I get at least a dozen fertile women to mate with to re-establish the population in our caves.

Yes, I *do* think it's weird that you're answering the OP's question.

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I have made some notes for our next encounter.  You are helping me inch out of my shell ... and I thank you for that.  I am a work in progress and you are a wonderful person and provider

You do anal?  (inside joke)

Tips to being the perfect hobbyist (in this lady's opinion):

1) FIRST IMPRESSIONS ARE EVERYTHING! Come as you expect me to! If I showed up and told you I took a shower this morning so I'm good, you'd be a little grossed out right? How you arrive sets the tone for the whole experience. Be prompt, fresh, and I mean you can't go wrong with a dash of excitement

2) Before laying out your "list of demands" so to speak, take some time to get comfortable. Service related questions before you've even kicked your shoes off sort of suck.  

3)Be respectful of our time together. Don't expect me to have a timer set, but its awkward enough for me to have to remind you 30+ minutes past our scheduled meeting that we should REALLY wrap things up.  

4)Brush your tongue. Brush your tongue. Please brush your tongue.  

5) Most importantly...BE YOURSELF! Be willing to reveal a piece of yourself and relax a little bit! Get out of your own mind and allow yourself to just enjoy the experience.  

IMO, respectful gents who treat this as an experience amongst friends have always been my favorite. Following these few tips might help too. I am extremely open, I mean once we meet we are past the shy akward stage so why not be myself? I sort of love that being reciprocated. Don't forget your personality or donation, and we're a ok

Ok I'll hush now lol  
Kisses
Miss Allison 48J

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...to pay in advance and forget to show up?

And if they did, then they come with great references from sites like P411 and Date-Check and White List.

Wow, I feel honored to receive a shout out!  Thanks Amber

Unfortunately everything Guarddog111 said about Asians is true, except for the one and done.  I'm usually a 2 rounder (maybe because I'm a lot younger than the average hobbyist).  And I may be small, but the last time I checked, bee stings still hurt.

There's racist, and then there's weirdly accurate.

 
This is weirdly accurate hahaha

Mhm... good to know

Woooooww I'm gonna have to get you two ladies together sometime

Hehe get in line darlin