I've been a DC area TER member for 13 years, with 20 reviews and 8 White Lists, but I've been out of the hobby since the pandemic. t am thinking about taking the plunge and getting back in. I have 2 questions:

Do any of you have suggestions of the best places to look for DC area ads these days (I'm not a P411 member) where some of the ladies are likely to have TER reviews?  

I'm in my early 60s, retired almost 5 years ago and all of my references are four or more years old. Any suggestions on finding well reviewed ladies or agencies where screening won't be too difficult?  

Please feel free to post or PM me. Thanks in advance for your help.

I took a few years break and there was a provider I was dying to see who was firm on recent references only, otherwise she wanted crazy personal info... So.... I looked for a provider who would accept my three year old p411 OKs even though I wasn't that interested in her lol. And wham, a fresh OK.  

So what I would do since no p4 is look at the TER DC ad board and find someone you're interested in and reach out. If they're posting ads on ter they're more likely to accept your old whitelist. Nothing wrong with explaining your situation and giving it a shot with a few ladies. Worst case they say no and you keep trying. Eventually someone will take the appt and you've now got a recent reference. The key is to find someone just careless enough to not care about your references but on top of things enough that they'll actually be responsive when asked for a reference 🤣

Tryst is a pretty good site. Eros is fine but you have to weed out fakes. Slixa is also fine. There's another one I'll dm you, they won't let us post it. Honestly p411 has been worth it... I heard many providers don't even look at the age of the OKs, they just see how many when u send them a request. They have to take an extra step and click your profile lol.

“The key is to find someone just careless enough to not care about your references”  

😱 now none will be careless or accepting of his history and white listings 😂 honestly I don’t think he will have any problem finding someone. They may ask for a lot of personal information such as a Drivers License, which you can mask much of the details on it, most want to see your picture age, city and state but not the specific street address, but of course ask first. And then there are some who will ask for deposit, this is where the risk and reward has to be measured. I probably wouldn’t a problem of a deposit if it was for someone who has a well established  fun and  have a good reputation and the policy for refunds were made clear such as what grounds is the deposit not refundable and why. Still a risk but hopefully worth it. If they are not reviewed and published move on. For me, it would be someone I found on TER. Not a hot unknown. I’m no longer into taking one for the team.

I’m coming from the same situation as you. I’ve been a member for over 21 years have over 100 reviews and I can’t say how many whitelist, but I’ve been away so long and think it’s going to be difficult coming back. And I’m not interested in spending over 150 on P411 though I probably should and will at some time.

Good luck I hope you have good news for me soon  

Cya
Slip

Most people don't realize that blocking your address doesn't help much - someone can still get all or most of your details with much of your license info obscured.

I agree, doesn’t take much sleuthing if it has your full name and DOB. Revealing your identity is a serious consideration but I’m assuming it has to do with who’s asking for it and if she’s worth it and if you really believe you can trust her. And also how much do you have to worry about. One thing I would never do is give my Facebook information. That reveals everything about you, including your family and friends. Had a scammer try that recently, a quick block and report followed.  

I might give tmi to someone who has a large presence online and a lot to loose if she tried messing with me. But I’m not shopping these days and not worried. So proceed at your own risk in any case. But try to have fun regardless.

Cya
Slip

I also took a long break when LE was cracking down in DC area. I adopted a new handle and had to rebuild everything.
I still had contacts with some former lady friends, so I contacted them and let them know about my change in identity.  
BOOK THE TIME WITH THEM. Don't be cheap, they are doing you a favor of sorts, so treat it like an investment in your credibility.
I booked time with the ladies I liked and wrote new reviews with my new handle, then asked them for white list referrals.  

Dependable agencies and bookers that you previously knew are a good place start as well. I reached out to Miss Betty who I knew from before and booked with one of her ladies, that opens you up to her network of friends.  
If you left in good standing with any agencies, they probably still have your contact info. (despite claims otherwise)
Jennifer's Models, Latina Courtesans, and The Booking Agent are places to start.

Ask the independent ladies on this board and tell them of your situation. Book a session with them.

Preferred411 is a great place to start. Like has already been said, pay them with a money order you pay cash for.
Take a picture of it and email the picture to them with pics of the addressed envelope. I was skeptical for a long time, but now I use them all the time. Well worth the money.

Lastly, I would not send my DL, Facebook, LinkedIn or other work info to anyone (this is me personally). If they require that, I just move on. Sure, I may have missed out on a couple of experiences, but it also opened me up to new ladies I wouldn't have seen that month.  

Don

on twitter these days, tryst, eros, p411.