I have been on TER for awhile now and it seems that most of the lovely ladies require at least two whitelist reviews. While I have been having fun, seems it is difficult to get this done. So far I have one beautiful lady who will give me a reference, but others don't bother go log into TER to do this even though they have lots of reviews on TER... so while I have been having a great time I am still at 0 whitelist which leaves me playing around the edges. I don't want to be pushy with anyone (actually did ask one lady but felt bad about it), so how do you advise getting a whitelist?

Thx

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Most ladies want references from 2 reputable providers, not particularly whitelist referrals. Some providers don't provide whitelist referrals but will provide a positive reference via email. Have you tried emailing the provider you want to see and providing the name, email address and website of the ladies you've seen?  
Good Luc

I haven't. I am assuming that providers are quite busy and so I don't want to hand out their numbers for other people to call them. I was kind of guessing that is the whole point of white listing. One beautiful provider did tell me she would give reference, so maybe that is just the way to go.

After the last dating site breach (thankfully not in that!), I have been nervous about putting my personal info out there. Really complicates the process for both providers (who are rightly concerned about safety) and us guys.

Thanks for all the PM's and conversation on this. Seems there is a variety of opinions about the usefulness of white lists at all.

Most providers are happy to provide references. Its not a burden at all. Most of us do it for each other to stay safe.

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