People ask me question of my personal life, It's so unconffee. I'm no practices up on the living part or the brutal IT'S NONE OF YoUR !!!  Just sounds mean . I'm open for suggestions.  
DC and VA guys are adorable so what to say friends . There like puppies to huge and dress up.lol

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Although we're paying for sex (or as I'd rather say, paying you to leave), its part of the fantasy.  Like we are the only customer you've seen all day long and probably week.  Just like hotels, you come into the room wanting it spotless with no trace of the previous guest.

Anyway, if you're uncomfortable, I'd just make something up, you know college girl just trying to make it through school - could you tip me a bit more for books?  

Perhaps you're an administrative assistant stuck in a dead end job and doing this just for excitement.  Real estate agent by day, dirty slut by night.    

As for the reverse, when providers ask what I do for a living, I'm kind of truthful but not fully.  As they wonder how I can be fairly young, have the means for the hobby, and the time for the hobby (I'm not a lunch break kind of guy and don't need to be either).

Hope that was helpful.

GD111

Well, Jennifer, its like this...Let your conscience be your guide..

I have developed very close  friendships with providers. Thats because we genuinely found things in each other that we found attractive..Just with any other friendship..Because of some things I did or said, she became interested in me and I became interested in her, or the other way around..(actually pretty much always the other way around I think)

Now as to the guy you arent particularly interested in or are sure you will never see again, like in the singles bar, tell him anything you want..lol..Its none of his business...

Hope this is helpful...

1. You can just say, sweetly, "I would really rather not say, honey" or however you would put it.

3. You can make something up, but most people have trouble making up a different story about their real lives and being convincing about it. If you are going to make something up, maybe you could be over the top about it, so he will know that you are telling him a story.

3. If you click at a personal level, and if you want to see him again and you think he wants to see you again, it is trickier. You may eventually want to open up to him and it will be harder to unwind a fictional first story. If you can't see this ever happening, stick with 1. or 2.

I know easier said than done..

And I've been guilty of exactly the opposite... Many times..  

But not a bad thing to strive for....

Just give generic, non-specific answers. Most of us will get the idea that you aren't comfortable with specifics pretty quickly. Also, return the questions. Often, we're just trying to make conversation.