I am with the OP on this subject. Nothing helps me get ready for a banging session that a a juicy DATY. Kari is right, if done right she will soak you.  I was also out of town when I got turned down for this twice. Once was in a foriegn country and the girl communicated to me that she was on her period. So I understood her concerns. The other lady, was similar to yours with the CBJ. She was apparently someone who advertised GFE, but did only lip closed kisses, did not want any fluid exchanges, either by mouth or genitals. She was a germ of phobe as well. She asked me to wash my hands and dick as an initial hello. Which I understood but thought it was kind of a chock initial first impression. I was coming straight from a clean desk type job, and had not been working on a car or digging a ditch. As soon as I got on the bed and she started giving me HJ, she remarked that I had some pre-cum already. She stopped and got a "wet one". She handed it to me and asked me to wipe myself clean. Then once she had HJ'ed it to attention she handed me the condom for me to put on. With the instruction that it go ALL the way down. Then I got a half hearted CBJ. I asked for doggy and was then told she would kick my balls, if I tried any funny stuff, which included any ass play or trying to rip the condom off. It was a less than stellar exchange of communicating. She got her message across, but I could not wait to finish and get the hell out of there. Suprisingly she no longer has a website, so I did not even get to write a review. I hope she is doing better at customer service, serving burgers and fries.