I've been hobbying for over 5 years now and even though I'm out of work right now I saw one of my regular ladies last week and even though it was the usual fantastic session I walked out after an hour feeling a little disappointed.  Can't explain it. It's happened the last couple times before that, great sex but afterwards I feel let down...something is missing. No thrill...Any thoughts my friends? I'm thinking of taking a hiatus and see if some time off might help, but with my sex drive it may be impossible.

Was it sex without intimacy? Maybe you need a real girlfriend.

One in a while we all need some drama, like being kicked out of the house.

My ATF is currently UTR. Her service during play is really not that great, but I like her personality. Maybe we need more than just sex.



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I don't know. It might have the the opposite effect. It's a let-down when I look forward to seeing someone new with the expectation of a fresh experience, then turns out to the same old thing or worse.

Maybe he should find a regular that clicks with him. From time to time, cheat on her; that's exciting.

Sounds like you need to invest yourself in something else, at least for a while.  You're looking for intimacy.  You need a girlfriend for that.