...the thread below regarding Agency GFEs prompted an interesting "Hmmmmm" question/moment.

I've been hobbying a long time and always wondered why a lady would allow me to "fuck" her but nooooooo kissing.  Huh?!?!  I have my own analysis and understanding of why this is but would love to hear it from the source (the providers).  

Kissing, especially DFK is a big mood setter for me!!  For me, DFK and the resulting sensuality is more powerful than Viagra! Yet, I've had sessions where the lady allowed me to cum on her but noooo kissing...Huh?!?!?

..and she decides what to do with it.  I am not confounded or shocked to learn that so and so allows kissing while the other doesn't.  For some ladies its very intimate to kiss a guy and they are afraid of getting attached to the guy. They don't kiss. Some can handle their emotions very well. They will kiss.  Some just don't want to swap fluids with some stranger.

Also, if a lady does kiss with one, doesn't mean she will kiss with the next one. Some guys have just bad breath. There is always YMMV factor.

Afraid of getting attached to the client because of kissing? ROFLMAO. Oh sweetie. Come on, you dont really believe that do you?

This is true, many have said same thing. I don't ask for an answer to the logic, kissing is more intimate than fucking? Doesn't really matter much to me one way or the other. I choose who I see based on the mood and what is needed at that time, it's never the same because it doesn't have to be if you have options out there, which there are plenty.

....whether I believe it or not. Someone told me that. Someone who didn't kiss in the beginning of her  getting in the business, but later on started kissing as she got more comfortable with her career choice.

Every woman is different, and I don't believe in painting everyone with same broad brush. So might have been true for her..

...I could see why that would be some ladies reason for not kissing.  One actually told me that.  She considered kissing more intimate than "fucking."  Go figure!

...what can I say. I have a loud mouth, and a day off from work...

Maybe someone else already pointed this out, but you "fuck" her with some protection. You'd be kissing with none - exposing her to whatever you got.

Just saying but they all want alllow it......So I usually go for the ladies who are down with traveling to greece, because they will usually allow ass play, LOVE YOU LADIES!!!!

1) Poor Dental Hygiene. Unfortunately sometimes all it takes is one bad experience to make one hesitant.
2) Horrible Kissers. The one's that are uber juicy and ram their tongues down one's throat with the speed of a nuclear missle. Yum lol
3) Detached. Churn and Burn. Self Explanatory
4) Attached. Married providers may set limits because they want to save at least ONE hotspot for hubby. Can you blame em? lol
5) They just are not into kissing. I have met plenty of men and women alike who abhor kissing.
6) Boundaries. YMMV if you fall into category 1 or 2

I'm pretty sure I missed a few. Nonetheless, I loooove DFK. I have pulled away due to allergies, and poor dental hygiene. I know how to take charge and slow down a nervous and/or sloppy dfk

......so, you have a condom on, that makes it less intimate?  And as for kissing and disease.....the medical people will tell you that saliva is a helluva germ killer.  Yes, while germs are and can be passed via kissing, some of the concerns are over hyped!!

The Pros and Cons of Kissing is attached i.e.

"See two views of kissing's benefits and risks through sound facts with sensible ... Saliva contains powerful antibacterial chemicals that kill most bacteria before the germs from a kiss are passed on. ... “However,” he adds, “a small kiss on the lips will not necessarily spread Mono.” ... A really bad flu may be one of them."

...I never really considered or thought about providers being married.  How common is that?

i have met 2 married providers which made my session even hotter, because I imaginedd i wass stealing some pussy on the low, LOL!!! But I have met numerous providers in relationships, actually was in a session with 1 and her man called and they started argueing on the phone, i didn't care shit, she can talk on the ephone and llet him hear her take this dick....

Please BLOWTORCH STOP STALKING ME!!!! I"M NOT INTO DUDES

Ass Play ??? Fuck Yeahhhhhh

NOthing beats kissing and anal

Well Tamsen, you haven't kissed me yet! hahahahahaha

I've never had the desire to put my tongue or have a provider's tongue in my mouth... not knocking those who do... just sayin' but I don't kiss civy girls either really

Has anyone ever read a review (or consecutive reviews that start off like)

"I entered in the room and we started with a DFK...

and then a few lines later "I had to get one of her famous rimjobs and CIM"

LMAO WHAT??  You're tongue kissing the reigning international rimjob champion??  Good luck with that...



In fairness I do daty though.... lol go figure...

...... imo #1 being the main reason why some don't can be pretty fixed. It'd be great if a guy didn't smoke within 24hrs of an appt. I hate when they come in and they've smoked like 1hr or 2 beforehand and think swishing mouthwash for 30 seconds cures all lol...smh

Posted By: YasminB

1) Poor Dental Hygiene. Unfortunately sometimes all it takes is one bad experience to make one hesitant.
2) Horrible Kissers. The one's that are uber juicy and ram their tongues down one's throat with the speed of a nuclear missle. Yum lol
3) Detached. Churn and Burn. Self Explanatory
4) Attached. Married providers may set limits because they want to save at least ONE hotspot for hubby. Can you blame em? lol
5) They just are not into kissing. I have met plenty of men and women alike who abhor kissing.
6) Boundaries. YMMV if you fall into category 1 or 2

I'm pretty sure I missed a few. Nonetheless, I loooove DFK. I have pulled away due to allergies, and poor dental hygiene. I know how to take charge and slow down a nervous and/or sloppy dfk

You'd better brace yourself for this 5 and a quarter inch python!!

Why lie lmao

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Ladies, do you shower and brush your teeth/tongue after every visit? I am not a DATY kind of guy and, while love DFK, it does make me nervous when there could have been a bb dick in that mouth an hour ago and drops of some other guy's junk still swimming around in there as I start to swap spit. There's no bottle of listerene big enough to wash that taste away after I've gotten a sample. Even the thought of sucking on nippes that were sucked on by Harry halitosis an hour or two ago makes me gag.

I assume most of you do, but is there a standard practice that you usually follow?

certain gents is because there breath leaves alot to be desired. I provide mouthwash at my incall and when I ask a gent to please wash up first, I notice that alot of times they ignore the mouthwash. Some times a client comes to an appointment after having had onions or garlic for lunch or a cup of coffee. For the record, bad breath is not enticing and reason enough for a woman to shy away from DFK. I like kissing but as I always brush, gargle through out the day, I expect anyone I am kissing to come to me with clean breath. Then, just as some gents don't like to kiss "strangers", some women may feel the same. Personally, I feel, that if I am offering a true GFE session, kissing is part of being like a real  girlfriend. To each his own and there are enough escorts out there who will do what you want, so it should be easy enough to find one that kisses if that is what you want.

As for the concern of where the escorts mouth has been, let's be real here, ok? We are escorts and as such our mouths ARE on other men- it's part of being an escort. If you want a woman who hasn't licked, kissed, touched another man's privates and all that's entailed with that, than get a wife or a girlfriend and stick with monogamy. A decent escort WILL gargle and brush their teeth, shower, and come to you clean. If you are looking for a woman who hasn't been touched or has touched another man, than you shouldn't be in this hobby.

Tranqy, I never said I was looking for a woman that was never touched and I have no misconceptions of where her mouth and other body parts have been. But if you are able to read you'll see I was asking about what habits you follow after a session. A simple "yes I personally shower and gargle after every visit" would have sufficed.

So while you are expecting us to be clean and brushed and whatever else, we expect the same.