Gentlemen:

I am looking to take the plunge as a Hobbyist and am looking for some recommendations for which lovely lady should be my 1st.  I am looking for a lady who will take charge and guide me through the experience and first and then know how and when to let em take over.

Please, your suggections.

If you are not a member become one cause you can learn a lot about a provider from her reviews. Thats what TER is ALL about. I don't understand your explanation of what kind of provider you want, re-read it and edit it and I will try to give you a little advice.

I would suggest you try Nicole at sexycurves.com
She is one terrific provider in the Washington- Maryland area.

I'd go with Courtney.  She was my first.  She's independent, has a great in-call location, and is very sweet.  Hot body, cute face, and she makes you feel very comfortable.