“Fingering is underrated”.  Wow, just what I have always thought.  I saw that quote in a recent NY Daily News sex diary story.  I don’t know if the story has any truth to it, but I really liked the quote, and it reminded me that I would like to participate in such activities (mutual, indeed!) with one of the lovely ladies I have hoped to meet through this and the ad board.  I have some, not many, bona fides, and would love to set up an opportunity to participate in some manual ‘ESO’ practice (see the books by Alan Brauer and wife).  My VIP is currently lapsed, but I might move for renewal, given sufficient temptations….always interested, not sure if I should be on this board or the ISO board...MadWilliam.