Go and pick out what looks like fun to you. If you are using a toy and having fun , any guy watching will enjoy what he is seeing. And you can always tell him how to use it on you.

with my favorite provider happened when she brought up the idea of us going shopping for toys together.

I ended up with something I never would have dreamed of buying on my own.  

She has used it on me to great effect and the memory of shopping for it together is hot, too.