Many of the local providers only trust references from certain providers. They have had some bad experiences and decided to be on the safe side. Much of the extra information comes down to the guys hygiene and if he is too rough or too much of a big dick, excessive fat, etc. Many ladies don't like a guy into the piledriver experience. They want to guy to support himself and not laydown and crush the lady, etc.
I have now had two travelling girls wanting references say they will accept references ONLY from Independents (not from agencies).
I should think an agency reference (especially after multiple appointments) more reliable and with better info base than most independents who might go in and out of the business to say nothing of possibly being forgetful.
Girls please chime in.
I can attest it has been pretty loose for me on more than one occasion. Virtually non existent in another case. I wouldnt blame her unless she knows and trusts the agency in question.
The agency has much more to worry about than the girls
carries more weight, and makes the girls feel more safer...
Now, when you saw agency girls, did you fuck the agency girl or the owner of the agency? From agency owner's vantage point, all he knows is BIGGERED showed up on time and left on time, and didn't short on the donation.. Sometimes that is not enough for the girl to feel safe. She wants a nod from someone who you have actually seen, and not the owner of the business....
Its just like for employment, the prospective employer wants a reference from your co-worker or direct manager, and not the owner or the CEO..
Agencies such as Blue Flame, Aphrodite, & many others have always provided me with refs and visa versa.
If a girl doesnt want to take agency refs for whatever reason that is her choice. When it comes down to refs its either the gent was a perfect gentleman or he wasnt. No more & no less than that. So if a girl needs more than that to feel safe she will prob have an issue with several indys as well because I know Im not the only one who doesnt discuss details. A yea or nea, yes. Details, never.
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I too have no problem with references from reputable agencies, and places like Aphrodite have always been great about replying to me promptly and such. However, some cities have a lot of smaller, less reputable agencies where you are likely emailing a booker or manager who has never met the gentleman in question and all they can maybe see is a name on an email showing they did use that agency at one point. I have also had several occasions in which agencies have never responded to my reference requests. That said, with a well-known agency that is reference-friendly, using them as a referral is no problem at all!
Many of the local providers only trust references from certain providers. They have had some bad experiences and decided to be on the safe side. Much of the extra information comes down to the guys hygiene and if he is too rough or too much of a big dick, excessive fat, etc. Many ladies don't like a guy into the piledriver experience. They want to guy to support himself and not laydown and crush the lady, etc.
either working for an agency, or with references from agencies.
Not all reject agency references.
( From someone who feels your pain )
Its not only a matter of weeding out LE.
Ladies tend to want to know something about your general behavior.
Were you a gentleman?
Did you smell?
Are you too rough?
There are bad traits that some guys have that aren't bad enough for a black listing.
Just my general understanding from my short time here.
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