Based off of the number of positive reviews on TER, I made it a point to have a session with Pamela. I make an appointment with her the first time (mid Jan.) and she cancels at the last minute, via email. She apologizes by saying she was feeling ill and promises to make it up by offering the initial two hour session another day with the first hour being free. I'm thinking to myself....wow, that would be excellent. We reschedule for another day (two weeks later) and the second time around, she is a no show again. This time there is no phone call, no email, absolutely nothing. I called her once that same night and of course....no answer. The next evening, I email her to see what happened and let her know that she doesn't have to see me if she had a change of heart, but at the very least let me know if she is alive and ok. Again nothing! I was hesitant about saying anything for a while because I wasn't sure if something bad happened to her, or if she was just a total flake. I've dealt with providers flaking before, so I just pretty much just chalked it up as a loss. However, I recently came upon an ad she posted up on the regional board (2/3) and couldn't help to feel a little disappointed that given her reputation, she totally blew me off. I'm still relatively a newbie, so is this a regular occurence with her or better yet...providers in genereal from time to time?

I'm sure you're being paid here, show some respect and do a better job

Lazy Cop

I am not reaching any conclusions here but similar complaint was made by Rambone on this board 3/10/2011. You can search it. I do not know how to link to the thread. Maybe you can come to your on conclusions after reading it.

in that case there are plenty of ladies to pick from.

Also it's none of the clients business if a provider is alive and well.

I visited her once and had no problems with set up and a great time.  But I did hear from others similar stories to this one. I am sure it is true, but that it doesn't happen often.  And is not really that unusual for some other ladies as well.  It happens...

I can't say she's a total flake or not becaus she seems pretty popular in this area. Just speaking from personal experience, on three occasions, once two year ago, twice last year, every time it was no email no phone call nothing. I just sit there and  waited and waited until the apontment time passed.  then she would keep on sending me emails from time to time telling me she would be coming to town and how much she would like to meet up like nothing happened.   I've moved on and no longer tried to see her.

and didn't feel comfortable seeing you. Since you're a newbie, and nobody has heard of you, then it may have worried her to the point see no longer wanted to see you.

I've had the same thing happen to me seeing providers. Mainly new ones. I'd make it to the incall, and while sitting in the parking lot, or walking into the hotel, something just didn't feel right, so I turned around and left.

I know of onlyone  time, me turning around leaving was a good thing, becausethat particular provider had been flipped.

I don't know exactly what happened but I don't think it's a good idea to vent your frustrations with a provider on this board. Quite a few providers read this board and I doubt they will want to see 'trouble makers' especially newbies. Yes, NCNS happens quite common in this hobby. It's NOT right but it happens. Just move on to the next one. Maybe like another poster said, she just decided not to see you for her own reason. It happened to me quite a few times so it's not a big deal once you become more seasonal.

When you released your new Jordan's a month ago, I waited in line in footlocker and a riot broke out and somehow I got pepper sprayed in the face. I was so scared at the time that I soiled in my pants while at the store.

You gonna send me one of your jumpmans? I wear a size 10.5 for men, and I feel that it is adequate for you to send me a pair of shoes playa.

Thanks guys! All valid points to learn from.

it's completely reasonable and perfectly fine with me that a provider at the last minute might feel not comfortable seeing a client or for whatever reason just not want to see a client anymore. What I and I think some of us here probably don't  appreciate is the no email no call part.  let the client know when you want to cancel, you don't even have to give a reason, just like how you would want a client to let you know when he is not going to show up to an appointment unless the provider thinks it's ok for the client not to of course. Same argument applies to the client side. Not one time did I not inform the provider when I wanted to make a cancellation.

Taystar, we all had cancelations by the ladies....it happens. Have a backup plan, I first suggest you buy a bottle of lube and a good mag. Secondly I suggest you wait until you home before use them.  I have had several awesome dates with her. Have a great weekend gentleman.

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Sorry about your experience, but I must report I've seen Pamela numerous times and have nothing but good things to say.

I have had this happen to me on two separate occasions as well. She is a flake and when I did end up seeing her finally, it was not worth the wait... there are plenty of better providers in the area that won't flake out, I'd suggest you look them up instead.

.....The OP IMHO, did not vent based on frustration.  He vented based on his newbie status and the overall "perceived" good reputation of the provider.  He simply stated facts and wanted to know if others had experienced similar.  And he did find out that others actually have experienced similar.

Simiple, good intel and info for all.  Regardless of her reason/s for NSNC now others can consider her history regarding this attribute of her business and decide accordingly.

As the OP becomes a more experienced hobbyist he will learn that NSNC can and does happen and to simply move on.  but please make a note of it on TER so I and others can make our hobbying decisions on the body of evidence.

Isn't that what TER is for!!

I saw her a couple of months ago and I though it was gong to be a NS.  I arrived and called about 4-5 times, and was just about to leave when she called back.  I was her first appointment in the morning and I think she overslept.