However,  according to a credible source, some of the popular ladies seem to be overwhelmed with new requests that they can actually afford to be much more picky and still get away with it.

I see nothing wrong with ladies doing what they can to protect themselves if they can afford to do so.
Ladies have the right to put their safety as a top priority just the same as us hobbyists do what we can.



-- Modified on 9/10/2012 12:30:30 AM

reference always seems to work for me. One of the agency in the past had one of my personal info, not my job info, and they left temporarily. However, they are back now. I was thinking about booking with them again, but I have to wait it out and see where things progress for them. I don't just jump in, and gotta be caution of my personal info.

To answer your question, some agencies do require way too much information. Those are the types of agencies I will avoid. Took me way too long to get where I am at, and I'm definitely not trying to have one of my supervisors scrutinizing my lifestyle.

I haven't met any agency that accepts TER info, but the majority of them will accept provider reference, and that always seem to work well for me. I try not to give out my real name, but some agencies do need it, which kinda sucks.

As for indy providers, they gotta do what makes them feel comfortable. Even though you have a P411 account with a few approvals, that doesn't necessary mean you are a safe client to be with. Providers will often times need provider reference, which will assure them that you are okay. As for giving them my work information, nope, no way, never done it. As with the agencies, I just give them provider reference, and that seems to work for them.

-- Modified on 9/10/2012 4:01:06 AM

.....other, and all gentlemen provide me with their true identity, and place of employment.  Gentlemen always worry about what they have to lose; well, it works both ways.  If I am outed/arrested, I would lose this profession, my other profession, my incall location, etc.  I would also have to retain counsel,  which is not cheap.  A gentleman's risk is not greater than mine: equal to, maybe, but not greater.

  To the gentlemen that do not provide their true identity, what do you give the ladies, when they ask for id?

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Not a big deal really...

I have given my work information to ladies before, nothing more than a company name, phone number, and title. I gave this information to highly reviewed and well established provider's on TER. She called asked for me by name and just quickly verified me. Painless really, like a dental assistant calling to make sure your appointment is still good. Bottom line to me is if the provider is comfortable then it is more likely that she will be comfortable in giving you a once in a lifetime experience. I know that's how it was for me anyways.

There can be a serious tire kickers who either routinely makes up personae, changes emails, or uses legitimate TER handles as their own.

How can you really know the TER handle someone gives you is really theirs? That lies the problem and is the reason why most reputable companions would never just be okay with accepting TER as screening.

The more screening a companion requires, the less likely you will have to worry that the next TER handle that she will accept turns out to be LE.

The companion that takes her business seriously will not only think of her own safety, but also that of her clients.

-- Modified on 9/11/2012 1:10:11 PM