I think my funk will end this week.. Hope thing look up for you soon.lol

It happens. That is why you have to take a break. Might be time to have fun with the wife, lol. When you are with your wife you will have flashbacks on the hot times, lol.

I have been monogamous to my SO

for the past three weeks..........

but not by choice......

Alex

There's no such thing as a bad month...Thr first place we loose the battle is in our own thinking. Be positive.Change form negative thinking to positive thinking. Is the glass half empty or half full????

I go through ups and downs. Sometimes the downs last a few weeks, sometimes months (I'm in a long down period now).

I've had crappy experiences (even with an ATF) during a down phase when I wasn't into it but pushed myself to see some people anyway. Waste of money and time. Now I know to wait until I'm in the mood and not push it.

But now I'm not sure when the mood is going to come back. Perhaps a decrease in marital abstinence and getting old means I don't need as much???