That's why there are girls who are always in demand and others who complains they are lacking business.
No matter how many clients a girl see in a day...it's her choice to set her own level of comfort.
She can be the best (or worse) even if she sees just one or two guys a day.
It depends in how she makes his time special and to give that she needs to pay attention to details.
When we first walk in a place, we look around and take all in. The way the room looks, the way it smells, the way it's set. Is like a canvas background.
A girl can be groomed and clean but if a guy look around and find boxes of pizza, ashtrays full of cigarrette butts, clothes all over, unmade bed and towels (lol towels BD) all over...well you know the feeling.
I think you guys have encountered both...the clean and the messy. So you know the difference it makes in a session.
-- Modified on 10/9/2005 8:46:51 AM
I probably should have posted this below, but thought it would just get buried.
To me your message was not really about towels, and I could care less how many towels a guy uses. Although I am glad to hear that most guys do have the common courtesy to clean up before and after an encounter.
To me your message had more to do with having a special experience. While in the back of our heads we all know better, during a visit many of us like to get lost in the illusion that at that time and space it is just us and a very special lady. For some reason that experience is slightly diminished when it is brought to our attention during an early afternoon appointment that several guys have just been there for the same experience. A pile of dirty towels in the bathroom is one such reminder, a trash can full of spent wrappers is another.
So much of what we are experiencing is a fantasy (I don't have too many super hot ladies 20 years my junior jumping my bones in real life), so little things that distract from the fantasy can impact the experience. As mentioned by Yasmine and Betty, just tossing the towels (or other remnants of earlier visitors) in a drawer or closet seems like an easy solution to this minor issue. I am not saying this is a rational issue, but how much of this stuff is rational.
I have no idea what Imagine Who is talking about. Why did she feel it was necessary to bring up that this is all about money? She also seems to be taking a cheap shot at the types of ladies you are seeing, comparing visiting them to going to McDonalds. Seems like an unnecessary cheap shot, especially knowing you. I have found it is the younger less experienced ladies that have a tendency not to tidy rooms between visitors. Although this is a generalization, I think it has more to do with experience than the quality of the provider.
Finally, she sems to be complaining about the number of ladies guys are seeing, saying "Clients see provider's all day and all night. Do you think the provider's ever feel like just a number...". First, I think that is exactly your point. No one wants to feel like a number. We should treat ladies like they are the only ones we are seeing and hopefully get the same treatment back. Second, I think it is a small number of guys that see a lot of ladies (although for obvious reasons they do alot of the posting). Due to the cost and time involved, most guys are limited to a few visits a month at most.
-- Modified on 10/9/2005 12:03:41 PM
Thanks JC. The lady was a younger provider and I didn't mention other thing like the food wrappers and overall appearance of her room. No need to embarrass anyone.
I did have some problems with Jeop and Imagine Who questioning my taste in ladies.. I took Jeop comment as a New York moment and let it go as that. lol Jeopcon is Jeopcon, he doesn't realize the position he hold on this board sometime. Not that I care what he or Imagine Who think about who I see. I will continue to do my thing and not knock anyone for who they see.
That's why there are girls who are always in demand and others who complains they are lacking business.
No matter how many clients a girl see in a day...it's her choice to set her own level of comfort.
She can be the best (or worse) even if she sees just one or two guys a day.
It depends in how she makes his time special and to give that she needs to pay attention to details.
When we first walk in a place, we look around and take all in. The way the room looks, the way it smells, the way it's set. Is like a canvas background.
A girl can be groomed and clean but if a guy look around and find boxes of pizza, ashtrays full of cigarrette butts, clothes all over, unmade bed and towels (lol towels BD) all over...well you know the feeling.
I think you guys have encountered both...the clean and the messy. So you know the difference it makes in a session.
-- Modified on 10/9/2005 8:46:51 AM
-- Modified on 10/9/2005 12:32:04 PM
Not only did I make the point that yes clients see providers night and day. The deeper issue that alot may have missed is simple though. Do you know what providers go through to impress certain clients? What time and care is put into decorating an incall...or possibly serving chilled water and wine... having the jazz set just right or the right amount of candles?? Or how about having to overcome something that otherwise may not turn you on..but deep down inside you are doing what you have to do to get by. There are a massive amount of providers that love their job..they do it to the best of their abilty. But granted there are a handful that do out of necessity after a while...and then maybe their heart is no longer in it and they are doing it to make ends meet. You may not understand the struggle some providers secretly have going on inside themselves. Do you think they really intend to leave that towel around to make you feel as though you are Number 10 on the list... Did you ever consider that they may have been doing a quick wipedown of the bathroom area or possbily may have been quickly freshened up because of you are a valued client??? HMMM...
Like I said alot of providers truly enjoy their jobs....Another point that was probably missed because everyone thought I was just taking cheap shots, is truly the amount of time some providers really spend on taking on another life...they become counselor's, a sholder to lean on. Some clients actually go to provider's for the conversation...hello!! Some take time out of their day to call them and say hello. These women in their heart are strong and making the business work for them. (My point on it truly being about the dollar). I think anyone who took offense to that just doesn't want to recognize the truth. Let's take a moment to be completely honest. Conversation is great...but do you think we would all have these great "relationships" (notice the quotes) if it wasn't for what we had been through together. Hence me saying since I have stepped away from this business how many calls a day do I get about coming to hang out?? Guess how many...one thanks to Slip... I did have church that night!
So with this I say you may know who I am and you may think I'm being a ***** but I'm just inputting my two cents. And no matter what quality of lady you are seeing if it matters so much tell them...I mean really after all the catering some providers actually do.... We can talk about common courtesy all day and I understand. My comment about the Mcdonald's bathroom was also never a comparison about the ladies on here...for at one point to, I was involved with escorting so would I compare myself to a McDonald's bathroom come on now...read to understand. I was simply saying give them some credit. Like I said earlier: they light the candels, set the mood, play music, serve water etc. They try their hardest to make you feel good and to hear someone gripe about towels...I have feeling and respect for those that can faithfully stay in the business and always put their best foot forward... Me Im not one for being fake and after awhile just getting money for a one hour of my time won't work.. I feel like I can give more of myself if it's for free and if it's out of love and respect for a person and not what they can do for me. No disrespect but I am at another point in life.
I've never met you and guess I never will ("stepped away from the business") but was moved by your comments. You sound like exactly the person I would want to hang out with. Here's hoping that you are happy at whatever point in your life you reach.
I totaly agree Betty.