Being a veteran these are two words that mean a great deal to me. They are also two words that I feel could greatly help this community if taken seriously and abided by. I have recently joined Twitter and the reviewer only board. With joining those two it doesn't take long to realize that there are a fair amount of disgruntled people on both sides of the fence. Thus, the reason for this post. I am going to speak to how I feel that Duty and Honor can help the situation from the Gentleman's side of things. I feel that things could be improved on both sides, but I also don't feel that it is my place to make recommendations to the ladies.

DUTY: Gentleman, it is our duty to one another to post accurate reviews, and not to post inflated reviews due to pressure put on from a lady. We also need to stop posting reviews and saying that things happened that didn’t happen, to pad our own egos. We are all getting older, if you are a one-shot guy now, don’t embellish your review and say that you went a second round when you didn’t. We also have a duty to be gentlemen when we visit these ladies. I am incredibly tired of reading postings about men being dirty when they come to visit ladies, it takes 5 minutes to shower off, and if you are worried about getting your full time ask her to come chat with you while you are in the shower, so you are not wasting a minute (I know that some men are so stressed about maximizing their time)

Honor: We as gentlemen also need to understand that a review can help or hurt a ladies business. Therefore, if you are a guy who prefers tall thin women, don’t go visit a woman who advertises as 5’2” and curvy, then slam her on looks, because she is not what you prefer. Doing that is not fair to the ladies and to the men who like short curvy women and might see her as a 9, but you gave her a 6 or 7, because she is not your type. Also, if you are guy who really loves an off the walls type of PSE experience, then don’t go see a girl who advertises as a true GFE and then slam her for not being what you are looking for.

That being said, if you do go see a woman who advertises as exactly what you want and she turns out to not be what you want, then you should let everyone know that she is not what she advertises. Yes, this may hurt her business, but it will also help the ladies who are honest in their advertising and isn’t that what we want to promote.

Also, if I have learned anything, that if a lady is enjoying her time with me, then my time with her will be much better. Find out what she likes, and try to ensure that she is having a good time as well. You are spending an intimate time together, you are not test driving a car. Yes, it is frowned upon to discuss details, but you can get a very good feel for who a woman is, by reading her website, reading her reviews, or following her on twitter. Yes gentlemen, I am suggesting that you do some more research to improve the time that you spend with these ladies.

I understand that there a great deal of men in this community who do all of the right things, and treat women respectfully and are “Honorable” – but there are still an overabundance of men who are not. Let’s do what we can to improve things from our end. After all, if your favorite ladies are enjoy their experiences also, and not dealing with so much ignorance, then they might decide to stick around longer and that is good for all of us. Remember that most of these ladies are here by choice. They are smart and talented women, who could choose to do something different, so let’s give them reason’s to stay around.