Washington DC

Former Strippers Advice pls
GoodHumourMan 966 reads
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I will admit that I like going to strip clubs and have enjoyed them for decades in many major US cities. One thing has always puzzled me though and thought this would be a good venue to ask and get a consensus from former strippers that are now escorts.  I am not judging, just curious. Most of my ventures into strip clubs were to see naked ladies up close. I got to know a few of them by being a regular. I kept being told that strippers did not mind getting paid to take their clothes off and being ogled by horny guys, but going to bed with them for money was crossing an imaginary line. It is this imaginary line I could not figure out. I did find out that many strippers had boyfriends or husbands and kids that they were supporting, but most kept a fantasy image of almost being available or single at work. I have heard that some lower class strip clubs are actually brothels in disguise, but have avoided those places I guess. Then the other puzzling piece was when strip clubs changed from the 1 foot rule (you can't touch them) to the lap grind full contact clubs with your clothes on. So the girls can get you off by rubbing on you without there hands while your clothes are on. Why are can they use their boobs and but on your privates but not the hands.  Thanks for any updates you may be able to provide in this area.

You alluded to getting the sense the girls were available, which helps the guys have a good time and increases dancer income (additional lap dances, drinks, VIP sessions).  There are dancers who will meet up with guys off the clock (date, concert, sports event), who will offer escort services to the guys, and also find their Sugar Daddy there.  It’s up to each dancer.  

Club owners benefit from an Imaginary line in that it limits the rumors and accusations that would draw increased scrutiny from law enforcement, and increases the likelihood that the money a guy spends on the girl is money spent in the club.

Jack B. Nimble122 reads

Girls in this industry (anything from phone sex to strippers to porn stars) set their own rules and lines based on what's comfortable and makes sense to them. It's not always rational -- some girls will CIM but save DFK for their boyfriends, which never made sense to me -- but remember it takes a lot just to step over the line into this business.
I don't try to figure out where they draw their lines, just enjoy what I can get, and advise others to do the same.

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