I am finding it almost impossible to get any appointments without verification. Since I havent hobbyed in several years I have no provider references I can utilize. I would not give my work info to anyone before, and I cant now even if I wanted to as I'm retired. So it seems the only way I'm going to get anywhere is to get VERIFIED!!!!!!

How exactly do these verification systems work? Do they give your info to the provider or do they just verify what you have given to the provider? Is there any paper/email trail? Are these businesses reliable and not flakes who will hand over your info to anyone and everyone?

Nobody uses them.............................

taboo considering what has occurred in the recent weeks. Still, no one is gonna give you a response. Your best option is to go on the Newbie board and pose your question there. Take a look at some Indy websites to give you a better understanding, and make your conclusions from there.

You can't talk about that stuff here on the regional board, LE is always watching.

With a couple of new faces and their radical post I've seen recently here on the DC board, I don't assist anyone unless I know them and the preferred method is PM. Best of luck!

As always, your willingness to entrust your information with a verification service is dependent on your tolerance for risk. Plus, what the previous poster, this isn't the time for this kind of open forum discussion.  Consider paying for VIP access and using PMs to ask your questions of some of the "trusted" reviewers.

I just have never used a verification site.

As a matter of fact, I'm so old, when I started the hobby escorts DIDNT ask for any info at all except maybe a phone number to call you back if ncessary!