Just wondering?

So..Question # 9834... Why do you promise to be in town on certain date, make the guy book appointment and never send out any update on whether you arrived, got eaten by a dinosaur, or just abruptly decided to drop from the business...?

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“Can we do this without faking? We’ll both get more out of it if you let me discover what works for you. (And what doesn’t work.)”

If you have that many questions.....You are spending way too much time and energy "hobbying"!

Traveling expenses exceed the projected financial gain.  Not enough interest was given to their proposed trip and the costs of transportation, i.e. plane, train, automobile, etc., cost of hotels and food during their stay.

Most of the guys who hobby are looking for an ego boost.  The ladies in question are just giving the responses they feel are expected.

Unless you are a traveling provider and are just in this business, it can be a real pain to keep up with.

Nothing more frustrating than taking the time to write out a detailed email with date, time, references, etc. and then not get a response. I usually wait 3 days for a response which should be more than enough time and them move on.

What if the person is regular visitor..

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I think that many of the men do the same thing though.  I have had a few guys, over the years, book my time and then cancel last minute.  Those that have done it repeatedly, I've asked not to contact me again.  Quite honestly, I don't put up with other people's cr*p.  I go through great pains to arrange my schedule to suit others, and I expect some respect by them honoring their commitment to me.  It doesn't always happen that way though.

I always put whether I'm available or visiting a city. If my calendar is blank that usually  mean that I'm home (DC) and available.  

LOL so what's question #1???

I have no reason to ask such a newbie question..So any debate and exchange of ideas great...

I can relate to that. I respond to emails the same day so a lot of the time I'm the one waiting for a response. My thing is if I responded and basically confirmed the date why not inform me that you got the message.

Well, I've wasted enough bandwidth for one day.

Re: I have too much time on my hands today. (EOM)

Shame, I love those idol hands and other body parts of yours

Lets start with Question 0 first.. (I start my counting at 0...)

they have an era.

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan

Lets start with Question 0 first.. (I start my counting at 0...)  
   
 Question # 0..  Is that you (universal tense) in the pics, or you have a 20 yr old teenage daughter.. - Best asked to those whose age never goes up on profile or website no matter how long they been here..  
   
 Question #1.. Do you understand why we started with Question # 0  
   
 

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I've always assumed big bills are preferred ($100s) in the donation envelope, are they?

Why post on the ad boards if you're not going to bother responding to booking requests?  Self validation?

Gotta bow to your wisdom, Syd, ladies being experts on the fragile male ego and all.

Yes

. . . receiving a doggie?

. . . does the grocery list go through your mind?

. . . while giving BJ

. . . your client is some hunk while he's on top. Who would that be?

Most men looking for the ego boost, really don't care if she did or didn't.

LOL that I can not answer but I do agree with the other ladies response. Real women don't have an age and Betty White is HOTT LLS.  

I've not responded to people because they don't have any tact or manners, or they boast about their prowess....it's very unappealing.

I could ask you the same.

LOL  Who are you....IRS?

Sometimes the art on the wall.  

Okay now you are just being silly

What really goes through my mind is "could I 'break' him like this?" I worry about accidentally breaking someone. It seems like it could happen. Maybe that never happens. I always say "are you okay?" and they look at me like I'm crazy.

It never occurred to me to do that but I have thought of a boyfriend a couple of times -- not often but once or twice when it wasn't the best of sessions. But most of the time I focus on the guy and I'm not thinking of anyone else. Men are so intriguing, and different. It's more fun to be in the moment and try to figure out what they like.

Re: Okay now you are just being silly

It happened to me twice in one session the other night.  I'm a bit on the smaller side so it tends to slip out often when the girl is going at it hard/fast.  It hurts like HELL!  I want to put it up there with being kicked in the nuts, as far as pain goes.

you do this?  Or, is reason #1 the only truly relevant reason?

And I was scared to death at first. My client was very kind to me. And then I wasn't scared anymore.

You think you're not going to get another appointment from that post? Just wait and see. Hopefully you won't attract guys that want too much from you. Which leads me to this question (which also ties into the original post), what would you do if you found you couldn't turn it off? What if you felt something for a guy that lasted beyond the session - would you stop seeing him?

I'd be shocked if you weren't booked for the next month!  Enjoyed reading your honest response, thanks.

That post far exceeded what I thought anyone would be willing to share here.
You are the real deal lady!!
Thank you for your honesty - in this world of illusion and pretend, this very real, very human glimpse you've provided into yourself is rare.  And I think you are right, we all DO need to feel connection - and many of those who read your post will definitely feel a connection to you now.
I tip my hat to you...

He used to see me once a week. I denied it to myself but after a while, I couldn't help it. The sessions were amazing. My heart used to beat so fast I couldn't figure out precisely why, but he struck a chord in me, and I could tell I was falling for him. I knew it was just going to hurt. He liked me but I don't think he felt that way.  Before I got in too deep, I told him that I was developing feelings for him and that I was sorry but I oouldn't see him again. I never heard from him again -- and good thing, too. I mean, I don't know his back story at all. He never told me. And it was none of my business.  It was just -- it's not like we had anything in common. He saw all kinds of other providers. I wasn't the only one. I will never really understand why he got under my skin, but oh boy. I still think about him sometimes, but I know I did the right thing for him...and me.

That's it, I can't ask you anything else. If I did, I'd just be abusing the privilege. All I can say is wow, thank you, and it's amazing how some people just seem to have a free pass through our defenses. Chemistry...

Duchess,
If we want you to stop we'll ask you.   I think I speak for most men here when I say, "Ride it as hard as you can, Cowgirl, break me!