Thought we might need a little change of pace from the in-fighting on this board. So, a question to the hobbyiest here.

Why do you see providers?

1. Married and sex has died with the SO.
2. Divorced and horny.
3. Single and horny.
4. Bi and horny.
5. Gay and not sure I am Bi.
6. Other

I for one am #1 and if not for providers would be #2 for sure.

This one gets my vote.

There is nothing as exciting as the first time you see a woman (provider or other) and watching her undress for the first time, the first time her nipples gets hard for you, the first time she looks in your eyes while giving you a BBBJ......er, excuse me now!

Not her fault, not my fault, just the way things work out sometimes.

Married and no desire to have sex with SO.

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6. Other My wife won't let me fuck her in the ass.

SO has let her self go and there is not any desire.

..it got stepped on, squashed and otherwise beaten down...

C_K

I swear I can not figure out this phenomenon. Married people not having sex. Yeah we can all quote the conventional wisdom-"couples dont keep it exciting," couples grow apart," etc, etc, etc.  But why? and why does it keep getting worst?  Marriage in the US is at historic lows.

And, America is the home of porno, strip clubs, and the perseption of all things hyper sexual, yet studies have shown Americans are the most repressed sexually and don't "get busy" as much as they do in other countries.

Long story short...thank you providers!  Now how do I get over the moral and ethical hurdles?

#1 for me -- probably the same for most here.

The "ball and chain"  gives it up maybe 4 times a year. Too bad as she still
has a rockin' body after 20 years..still runs marathons, etc.

The hobby has allowed me to release a lot of tension (and
meet some awesome ladies). For that I am grateful.

It has also released a lot of $$ from my wallet..for that
I am not grateful.

mine is 2 and 6

CIMNQNS
rimming
and the big one:
VARIETY

J

Attention deficit disorder, deficient monogamy gene and pursuit of the ultimate orgasm.