Ladies! Ladies! Ladies!

Please keep your pictures current. Men are visual by nature, It's the way we are hard wired...and you all know this! If you know you look different than your posted ad i.e you're now older, you've gained or lost weight, your hair is different, etc please reflect that in your CURRENT ad.  

I know photo shoots cost money, but nothing shows a lack of integrity more than walking into a session with a provider who is now 20 lbs heavier than her pics let on, or is clearly 10 years older than her listed age. You ladies screen us and expect us to by forthright with you. Do the same for us.

In the age of cell phones where everyone and their grandmother has a camera on their phone, there is no excuse why your ads don't consist of current pics.

Saw a provider recently who seemed confused as to why another client she saw was not happy with her appearance, because she didn't look like she did in her ad...duh? Btw, she didn't. It's the reason why I'm also glad that on P411 they now have a feature listed on the providers ad where she has verified her age...

Agreed. This cannot be stressed enough. Catfishing is deceptive behavior. For guys OR girls. If it's not ok on OkCupid, why is it ok on Eros?

Personally for adverts especially on paid sites like Slixa, Eros, etc I do intentionally post my edited pro pictures from 2019 because they're more polished. I reserve more current photos I've taken of myself within the last few weeks for my Twitter / Switter because the image quality of my dinky Android does not compare to that of a professional photographer's high-end camera.

What I'm curious about is if this issue is such a deciding factor, why not seek out companions who frequently post new pictures? Pro shoots while worth it can be pricey and not everyone is able to get new professional photos multiples times in a year. But there are thousands of companions all across the country who post new pics or even videos on a weekly or almost daily basis.

I am more likely to book with a provider who posts pro shots AND selfies than one who has only pro pictures; however, the image quality is not the issue. It's the time that has passed between getting those pro pics and how you appear TODAY. If you know you don't look like your pro pics, why use them to 'deceive'  a client into believing you do? Even a basic phone can take pics that are of good enough quality to use in an ad. There's no excuse. Guys don't care about fancy lighting, extravagant make up, exotic poses...we just care if you actually look like you appear in your ad.  

A pic taken by your friend standing against a wall in a bikini is all it takes. I can count on one hand in the last 15 years that the provider I met up with actually looked like her pro pics in the flesh (shot out to Sammie Sugar for actually looking like your pics! ) most indy girls pics are outdated by MANY years, and are heavily photoshopped. I have had better luck with agencies because the girls are at least accountable to someone if they misrepresent themselves; Indy's can do whatever with no accountability other than it being mentioned on a site like TER...

Outdated pics are rampant. Everyone has a camera these days, so there's no excuse. Have a friend snap some pics of you in the location of your choice and post them. I think I speak for most clients that this shows way more integrity than presenting yourself wth outdated and/or heavy airbrushed pro pics. It comes off as disingenuous.

I do utilize tape in hair extensions, I'm a natural brunette (as per my photos), I wanted to go for some fun summer highlights but nothing too dramatic (i.e. too different from my photos), she put a keratin treatment in my hair before putting in the new highlighted extensions (also extensions need to be replaced every so often and mine were due for a replacement)Well the keratin and me being in the sun riding my bike everyday, I accidentally became a redhead 😧. (Nothing wrong with redheads, just my pics feature a brunette), luckily most men received it well. I had to wait for new brunette extensions to come in (they were coming in from London) I obviously wasn't about to get new professional photos with hair color I didn't intend to have, but I did post selfies on my Twitter with the red hair.  

Took a few weeks but the new brunette extensions came in and I'm back to normal.  

The red hair was a complete accident but I think I handled it pretty well.

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Just playing a bit of Devil's Advocate, you saw these women anyway based on their outdated photos. We start to envision, "How bad can it be" based on photos. The K-Agencies used to be pretty good about at least getting a semblance of the girl. Meaning outdated photos, but it was still the same girl, just the photo in her early 20s versus 30 plus. Nowadays its out of control where its some model they pulled the photo from the web, and not even close to the girl you meet.

 
One agency I know the quality of the girls they get, versus the quality of the photo. So, I 'adjust' in my head - and even the look of the girl is still below my expectations. So, in that case, I just stop going to visit giirls from that agency or go on TER reviews. Why honest reviews are important.

It's less about hair color/hair style, lack of make-up vs no make up... and more about weight and age. Men are visual. That is why providers post pics of their bodies. My issue is with providers that deliberately deceive clients by posting pictures of themselves from years ago.

I also find it quite hypocritical that providers want to know a clients' age when reaching out to them, but frequently lie about their own age in their ads...

On ad board recently for a lady i saw a few months agi in dc. Her pics are milf hot.  She’s a nice lady a few pounds removed and medical condition removed from pics on her site and ads. She was overweight, and uninspiring.  Paid for fs but hand job was all i was up for.   AC.

2019 is very recent by current hobby standards.  I was away from this for 4 years or so, but came back and I see many of the same pictures for ladies.

It does seem like having the guy be disappointed in looks would be a bad way to start the date... but maybe just getting us in the door is the objective for some ladies.

I get that we all want to present the best version of ourselves.  Hell, I’d be tempted to post pictures from 5 years ago when I was in great shape if I was pursuing on-line civvie dates, rather my those with my big belly of today... but I know that probably wouldn’t go over well when I showed up to meet a lady.

To answer your question though... many guys don’t know how old the photos are, so that’s the point.  I think it’s okay to keep pro shots from the last 2-3 years up... but just date the photo set (“May 2018”  for example).  But then always have something from within the last year that reflects how you look now.  Guys are pretty flexible... but we do want ladies to look like their photos.  That’s why we dole out so much for these dates.  If she looks 20 lbs heavier or 10 years older... that’s a huzz kill.

That's the mind set; 'TO GET US IN THE DOOR' because most ladies know that once in the room most guys will find it too awkward and rude to call her out on the misrepresentation and/or leave. Most guys just go along with it, so a scene is not made which may draw attention to the room and why he's there.

I've also noticed a lot of the ladies who are not comfortable with 'review culture' and don't want reviews written about them fall into this category because if the word got out that their pics are outdated, they'd loose new clientele...

Going to make a bad joke, with regards to weight, it's called covid-19 for a reason 🤣.

Your right tho pics should always be kept up to date.

Hammer meet nail, you hit it right on the head. Get the client in the door.

Especially when they are updated fairly frequently. Year after year, new pics. I like to see their surroundings to get a better idea of what I’m dealing with. Nothing like seeing the same stuff year after year, like linens.

Hey, I recognize that towel hanging in your bathroom for me to use. It’s been hanging here in your pics since 2014! I remember seeing that comforter in a video clip you posted where you were giving a sloppy top to some dude back in 2015 too!

Yet their ads talk about you needing to show up with good hygiene? One thing about selfies, too many are too hung up on getting the right angle and all that when they need to also look at their surroundings.

To all you ladies who keep a clean ship and update your pics at least once a year, I thank you! To all those who live like slobs, please get it together, call a mom, or use hotels.