What is it, if any, for getting (gracefully) money back that was "given" to a once special lady after repeated requests and she ignores you?  More rehetorical cause I'm hoping this will finally get her attention given what I thought was a "lasting connection."  

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Not knowing the exact circumstances and conditions under which any money was given', you may wish to consider this money a gift never to be seen again.  

Thanks fiar point. Seeing if my lady finally gets the point from post. I'm trrying to be a genlemen on all levels.