I had an appointment with a UTR provider yesterday ..one I was really looking forward to. We PMed each other till the day of appointment and it was decided she would PM me on the Dday with her location info. Strangely I stopped getting PMs from her and I sent a message giving her the phone info an hour before so that she could send it over. Appointment time came and passed. Though I was upset I thought something urgent had come for her.

I checked my PMs this morning and I see 2 messages from her about the location info which she sent yesterday well ahead of time that reached me today. I am pretty sure she thought I ditched the appointment. I am a little pissed with this incident. I am sure it has damaged out relationship all coz of deliberate PM delays I believe. Not sure what to do

Next time, take extra precautions. Whenever I set appointments in civvie world (work related) or hobby world (sex related) I always provide multiple ways for the lady to get in touch with me and appreciate if she does the same.

Next time you want to consider swaping phone numbers with little more time cushion - like may be a day or so before rather than an hour.

.....my hard dick and I are sitting here waiting for location info from a well-reviewed, rather expensive and visiting provider, for an appointment that is supposed to start in seven minutes.  Houdini I ain't, might be tough to make.  Of course she has my cell, my email.  I think guys are afraid to out these providers because they don't want to get black-listed by the providers friends.  I have contacted her several times this week with no response, trying to confirm.  Can't say I didn't see this coming.

The opportunity cost is not just mine, ladies.  There were other providers I would have loved to have seen this week, and this effectively cost one of them that revenue.  This started with her contacting me to see if I was interested in meeting her this week.  So, ya.....

On to next week's scheduled appointment which I am greatly anticipating.  Perhaps add a 2nd one now...

Reiterating what I said before - the provider was not at fault. I see the time on the sent emails. It's just that our entire communication was blocked or failed somehow for some time. Technology issue ? Could be...

We were finally able to communicate and glad that there's no misunderstanding

This ome is not totally unreliable but I would never rely totally on an individual board like that.    There must be another way to reach each other.