Im posting this more for my own self, but thought maybe some others may have followed the same path in the past. Im a grown man and feel kind of stupid admitting this. I met and saw a provider a few months ago and being a single man, I started to have serious feelings for her. Actually, I think I was in love.
We talked about getting together outside of the normal hobby and it fell through both times. Then she sort of dropped out of site. Well, I found out her angency was busted and I became concerned and called her many (probably too many), trying to reach her. Well, to make a ong story short. She resurfaced and I finally reached her. She is hesistant about seeing me because I went overboard and called her too much. But, in my own defense, she seemed truely interested in pursueing something other than a biz relationship. I sent her flowers at first and she seemed so happy that I was interested. But, I think she may have been baiting me. Has anyone else found themselves in the same situation. I told the owner of the angency that I talked to her and apologized but I dont think it would be a good idea for her sake or mine to see each other again. Like I said, I feel like a total fool, but just writing this makes me feel better.

but calling a woman too often is usually a bad idea.  Whether or not she's an escort is irrelevant, she's the same on most levels as any other girl you would date.  How often is to call can be somewhat of a judgement depending on circumstances, but less is probably better than more in most cases.  Women don't mind being pursued, but I don't think they like being stalked.  There can often be a fine line between the two, at least in how someone perceives it.  Good luck.

Never forget that this is a "hobby", if you click with a lady great, but do not get to thinking this is real. It's not not.

Get up, dust your self off and climb back on for a better ride in the future...move on..a little wiser for the experience.

Be safe,

MM

I can state that yes I am one who like you fell for a provider
and I really wanted for things to work out for the both of usm
She seemed really interested in me as a person and I was hopeful
that we could close the gap that kept us apart. But we backed
off emotionally from each other before it became to painful
to us both. No I didnt forget that this is a hobby nor did I
forget that she was a provider. But what I did remember was
that we are both living breathing human beings capable of
emotional feelings, Did I love her? you betta I did and I still
do love her. but I also love myself enough to have known that
this was worth it for me to try and see what became of it,
I got hurt some no doubt, But I am glad to have loved this very
wonderful woman. In my heart I wish that things could have
turned out different but at least we are friends still to this
day, I havent been in contact with her for awhile because I
never meant to hurt her by expressing love for her but yet
asking her to leave her lifestyle behind for me. Good luck to
you and I hope your emotional healing process is swift,