Seems a little presumptuous to claim to be the best, or at least to be able to provide these ladies with the best DATY they ever had.
Yes, loving to give oral is half of the equation, but it is certainly not the full deal. Granted if you don’t love it, you will never be great, but just the fact that you love it, doesn’t mean that you’re great. Furthermore, some lady might think that you amazing, and another might think you’re ok or above average. A lot of it depends on chemistry and technique and if your technique matches what she likes. Yes, you can adjust your technique to match her desires, if she lets you know what those are, but many ladies are not comfortable being vocal about what they like.
I have often been told that I am amazing at this, but I also at times left a “date” wondering if she truly enjoyed my efforts or not. I am pretty confident that I was not off my game that day, it was just that my game didn’t match her desires, and she didn’t give me any info to switch it up.
All I am saying is that no matter how good you are, it is a bit much to claim that you’re best.
On a side note: Ladies, if we’re not doing it the way you want, please tell us, We really do care that you are having a great time also, and if we can make a minor adjustment to increase the joy of the “date” for you, we would be happy to do so
if all he wants to do is eat it - which is his prerogative....
fwiw I agree with you on another score - there are two basic types of pussy lickers -
the type who think they are great and have all these canned moves they believe in
and
the type who just enjoy pleasing a lady and are able to tune in very closely to her responses.
The former may have some happy accidents in terms of pleasing a lady
the latter approach is much more successful....
Posted By: MarkusKetterman
The former may have some happy accidents in terms of pleasing a lady
the latter approach is much more successful....
Agreed. Just got to see what gets the ladies motor running and then just roll with it. I've been told that I'm pretty good at it by both pros and non pros, but I think I'm just a regular guy that loves making a lady feel good. I'm always down to practice and take lessons though. Any other ladies willing to train me? LOL....
maybe he used some hyperbole, but who cares? Imagine if guys started replying snarkily to the hyperbole in ladies' ads.
I can relate too, as pleasuring a lovely fresh-tasting lady is damn near the top of my list of activities too.
There is alot of competition out there for what I can only imagine is a shrinking market (with the economy as it has been), and ladies have to promote themselves to seperate them from the competition. This may not be what some people want to hear, but it is the truth.
Guys, don't need to come on the board and say "I am the best" or "I have the biggest". This isn't craigslist.
this is all in good fun is it not? Don't you kind of chuckle when ANYONE claims to be the best in the world at ANYTHING?
And I guess I'm just not that sensitive, and kind of find it refreshing that the guy just threw it out there.
Whether he's great at DATY who really knows or cares - but he did make his point that he loves doing it.
Besides, I know he CAN'T provide the BEST oral service in the world, because that title would belong to me! ;o)
Honestly, don't take this so seriously, it's all just for fun...