Having had an excellent time during my last encounter, and feeling that it was due to chemistry, I couldn’t help but reflect on what was the main difference between this past encounter and the not so amazing encounters I had had recently. I am not entirely sure that I believe, that chemistry can be manufactured, as several people have posted; however, I do think that you can put the odds in your favor. My problem is that the things that I felt really made my last encounter great are not searchable.  Thus, I thought I would post my thoughts here and if any ladies feel that this really fits them, then they can let me know, and hopefully we can meet. Also, if any guys feel that this fits any ladies they know, I would greatly appreciate the recommendation.
 
First, I like to talk, so I really appreciate someone who is a great conversationalist. I also, appreciate someone who is just “real”, is comfortable being themselves and is not excessively worried about me. I appreciate it, when I woman is comfortable enough to tell me what she enjoys. I am a giver by nature, and if I don’t feel the lady is enjoying herself as well, it takes away from my enjoyment.  
 
From a physical standpoint; I love to kiss. There is a difference between someone who is willing to kiss and someone who truly enjoys kissing, and I love to kiss. I also love to provide oral pleasure, this is very enjoyable for me; however, I have found that the enjoyment level does fluctuate based on responsiveness. Yes, I have been around long enough to know real and fake responsiveness. Just looking for someone who enjoys receiving this sort of pleasure, and enjoys being at least mildly responsive.
 
Sorry this post has turned out a little longer than I intended. Ladies, if this seems like you, please let me know. Guys, if this sounds like a lady that you know, please let me know who she is.