Posted By: TheGalaxxxys
Your not alone RebeckaSky. A lot of men and women (probably more men) fantasies about BBFS and creampies. Their reasons, "it just feels good". A cover does limit the overall pleasure senses of sex. For a guy, when comparing a CBJ versus a BBBJ, a BBBJ wins 100% of the time because the feeling of skin on skin contact is more enjoyable than having a cover that limit the natural senses.
I do have BBFS sex, but only with my SO, and I can tell you that BBFS feels 100% better than CFS. My cock is able to feel every part of her pussy, and that is the ultimate pleasure for me. A cover is also inconvenient at times. For example, a person may have to constantly change condoms for different sexual acts and that changing of condoms is an inconvenient for some and it take away the overall enjoyment.
Trust is a major concern for a person to consider doing BBFS. I do not even do BBFS for civie girls that I meet for a one night stand. Can a client say he trust a provider that he has met several times before, and can a provider say that they trust a client after several visits? Because she is a provider, she has seen many clients. Because he is a client, he too has seen many providers. With each visit, the chances of STD will increase if they have already participated in BBFS.
You ask, "what is the riskiest fantasy? would you do it with ATF? Which one would you do first? how extreme is the desire to be able to do this? are there safe ways to do them?". The riskiest fantasy for me is BBFS and creampies. No, I would not do it with my ATF. Even though the urge is strong, and sometimes the foreplay and in the heat of the moment is great, I have to make a conscious decision to decline because I have too many responsibilities and too many people are dependent on me. So, I cannot risk my health, and will try to minimize my chances of an STD. There is no safe ways of doing BBFS. Foreplay can be great, but once you stick it in a few times, or even stick the head in, well, that is considered BBFS

I think ultimately Rebecka, it comes down to trust. Trust is the ultimate component to giving yourself entirely to a person. I can however inform you about something that I found interesting. Some clients and pornstars [may not be exclusive to pornstars and can include providers] (with the client paying upwards of $1500 and up an hour) may do BBFS. A few of my friends have seen pornstars, and so this is what they tell me: when they are paying those amounts, they are expecting a certain type of service. However, to ensure BBFS, the clients provide them with documents of their STD and HIV reports.
BBFS is intriguing, but I'm more afraid of other customers than providers- BBBJs are risky enough- we're talking about our lives here, and I'm not hedonistic enough to risk a lifetime for a moment...real talk