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GFE - is it a lost art form with young providers?
Charlie Tweeder 97 Reviews 3004 reads
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I am a very big fan of GFE type ladies; however, have recently been reminded the hard way that there is a big difference between someone who claims to be a GFE and touches on the right acronyms and someone who is truly a GFE.

So this raises the question, what do you truly look for to consider someone a GFE?

I once thought it was about acronyms and a GFE was someone who did DFK and BBBJ; however, more recently I have been reminded that those acronyms can happen and you can still leave disappointed if you were expecting a GFE. Thus, for me to feel like a provider is truly a GFE, she needs to simply make me feel like I am not paying to there. Perhaps, this is more difficult than I think it is, but it does not seem that way to me. It can be accomplished or ruined with some conscience simple things.

For those young ladies new to the business the following are just some things that I have encountered recently and things that I feel would make you gentlemen a lot happier.

Saying things in a subtle way allows you to get what you want and us to still hold on the illusion that this is not just something we are paying for. For instance: Letting someone know there is a towel in the bathroom they can use if they would like to shower is far better way then saying “I require everyone to shower first” – illusion blown also saying: “are you ready for me” or something similar is far better than asking “are you ready for the condom”?

Guys like to talk about themselves (at least I know I do), if you ask questions and at least pretend to be interested in what we have to say then we will leave much happier.

Have something interesting to say. Obviously we are not there to talk for an hour, but most of us are not there just to get physical relief either, AMP and CL do that far cheaper if that was all someone was looking for.

Get comfortable lying next to someone with out clothes on and having a conversation to fill up the rest of the hour. You don’t have to worry about many of us going for round two, but we would like to admire how sexy you are for the rest of the time we are there.

Many of the ladies on this board, I am sure are amazing providers, I am just speaking from a couple of recent experience with ladies who probably never read this board, so my words are probably wasted, but I feel better having written them.

Questionpleaze1766 reads

These things come with age. Im late 20s/almost 30 and I feel like Im just reaching my sexual peak. When I was 21ish I didnt know the 1st thing about how to please a man. You have to learn your own body before you can please some one else IMO.
I feel like the PYTs are great fuck bunnies but if you want a true GFE go for a more mature lady.

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Charlie Tweeder1381 reads

I would agree that with age comes a certain amount of maturity and knowing yourself as well as how to please someone of the opposite sex. Now in my mid 30's I may not have the stamina that I once had as a young buck, but I certainly have more knowledge about how to please a woman.

My problem is that because of my schedule it is hard for me to set up appts. days in advance with some of the more well respected independent providers, and most of the agencies seem to only have the PTY's as you call them.

Clearly this is my issue, and maybe it is just something that I need to learn to work around.

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MarkusKetterman2185 reads

but all in all, I would say that the probability density is greater with ladies who have experience in life and in the biz.

For some GFE is a collection of acronyms...

and yeah I'll take that if I can get it lol

however

*real* GFE is all about attitude.

Some are born with it.
Some learn it.

Oh!  And some do not learn it - age does not guarantee GFE quality either.

Well - thankfully we have the review system.

The numbers and acronyms will *not* tell you what you are looking for.

Carefully erad the content of the reviews to find those GFE gems out there.....

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AngelSpencer2166 reads


GFE means, for the time allotted, you are mine.  You don’t belong to your girlfriend, you don’t belong to your wife, you don’t belong to your boss, you belong to me. Your mind belongs to me , and I’ll definitely make it spin before sending it south. Your body belongs to me, and I’ll definitely send it to heaven after causing sensual overload. From the moment you walk in my door to the time you leave YOU belong to me. Your mind and body belongs to me, and I can and will do any simplistic or naughty thing to it that I chose.

Why?

Because that is what GFE providers do.

That is the attitude that a GFE provider has when she is with her "gentleman of the moment".

I know I am not the only lady who feels such and approaches sessions as such.  Watch the board. D.C has a plethora of GREAT ladies.

The “experience” you speak of , and seek transcends the physical and ladies who are acclimated with providing this type of “experience” understand this. GFE is an attitude that exudes pictures, posts, advertisements and most importantly her website ( if she has one) as appose to compartmentalizing the definition to a bunch of long (and sometimes unnecessary) acronyms.

However, and I must say, if nothing else remember the term GFE is, in fact subjective. For most of us, it is a standard of service, so to speak, a way of life ( in this fantasy world).

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Charlie Tweeder1762 reads

You do deliver as promised. Too bad you had to go and move to Philly before I decided to come back from my hiatus.

Your a great lady and definitely someone who understands the term and who to deliver it. Hopefully will we be able to reconnect at a not so distant time in the future.

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AngelSpencer2021 reads

I prepose a challenge both ladies and gentleman on this board.

I challenge the men to post a memorable "GFE" experience with OUT naming the lady. A shrill  with out shrilling, so to speak. What was memorable about it? What were the "little" things that made the session an "experience"?

Ladies, I challenge you to post what a session with you initials. Feel free to elaborate on your uniqueness, and why gentlemen com back to visit with you. Speak as if you were speaking to one man, your "ideal" gentleman. How would you blow his mind?

One rule, NO acronyms! LOL!

I think this thread could be fun...if we allow our minds to run with it.

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milkman882084 reads

My most memorable Girl Friend Experience is the one who stokes my hair while we are cuddling and basking in the afterglow of having both satisfied each other to our maximum potentials.

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vamikey1921 reads

'shill' meaning someone falsely promoting something. Sorry, don't want to sound like the language police, but using the language correctly helps us understand one another better :)

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wilycoyote631221 reads


no "extra" rules.
her kiss was deep and sensual.
she did not wait for me to make every move.
wanted to see me again to try new things together.

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abbtrader2162 reads

I think Jayla hit the nail on the head.  The acronyms are unimportant.  Among my favorites one young lady who doesn't kiss is IMHO a much more intense gfe than most who hit all the marks.  Another favorite is a remarkable romantic who makes me feel like I'm the only man in the world, even though I know better.  Oh btw, I don't think either of these ladies has turned 30.

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theman12006 reads

About whether I'm paying or not. I appreciate the company of the women I choose to see. A provider I know recently said "I'm a gfe but I'm not your girlfriend". By that she meant there are certain confines to our relationship which is understandable. She never fakes anything with me and- for better or for worse as they say-that is what I appreciate about her.

I agree that, at least for initial meetings, a certain level of pretense may be required yes.  It is after all a service. However, the ladies that I continue to see can get past that quickly. I don't want any bogus compliments or telling me how I look like a certain actor or phony compliments about my body. I prefer the lady to just be herself.

That's what a gfe is to me and we are lucky to have so many good ones here in the dc area.  

Just my .02

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