I've read the good revs and took a chance on a new person.  We confirmed our times during the day, we agreed to call later in the evening to confirm.  She called during the confirmation time and got mixed up with the appt time.  She apologized and I asked if we can still salvage the appointment; SHE AGREED by reducing the appointment duration and getting to her location soon.  We discussed it and I mentioned that it will take me 40 mins to drive from VA to her MD incall.  NOTE:  this is important to note because she did not mention something real important at the end of this situation.  The original appt was for 2 hrs so we agreed for an hour.  By the time I got there, 3 calls and 2 texts after 30 mins with no response.  Until I was driving back from MD to VA did she responded to cancel the appt that we agreed to the 2nd time around.  

Here's the clicker:  she never informed me that she moved from MD to VA in the afternoon.  I kept telling her that I had to drive from VA to MD, and she just kept saying "drive up here as soon as quick as you can."  Um...I know the visiting girls can be unfamiliar with the locations but different state?  Forgetting about the real time of appt?  No follow-up/call to cancel before I got there and waited for a while even when she agreed to the corrected appointment?  This shows how inexperienced and how flaky she happens to be.  I can't believe I lost over 1.5 hrs driving for nothing and giving her the benefit of the doubt!  I learned my lesson and I'm sticking to the locals from now on!